How to get rid of awakardness when meeting potential FB

[shhhhh]

maybe.. just tell the guy you're more reserved and awkward in irl and you'd appreciate it if he takes the lead. with this honesty, it likely will ease pressure off the guy too - pressure to impress

i mean for the guys you already sexted with... they should know the range of possibilities. as for those you haven't sexted with but like them, i reckon honesty to your awkwardness can work out fine. some guys might even find your honesty a breath of fresh air and find your awkwardness cute

[waaaaaa]

I think just tell the guy upfront that you are shy upon meet up. Nth wrong about it. Both of you may feel more at ease after that. Things may just flow.

I’m not used to shopping when I was young and it was weird going on date with my gf then.

[Vivienne]

Imagine I greet them ‘good morning’ like that

But when meet up I’m coy and reserved.. haha like split personality!

[sexcision]

Originally Posted by Vivienne

I've met a few guys over the past months, got to know them through Apps and Online sites. Chatting is quite alright, convesations flows, some flirting done and ahem... sexting also and would keep checking my phone for replies but when comes to meeting up in real life... I would be quite hesitant.

It is the anxiousness and nervousness, then I become quiet and the guy just keeps asking if i'm okie?! (quite the pussy, wait... i am a pussy!) Obviously we don't jump on each other's genitals on the first time we meet!

Therefore, any suggestions as to how to make each other more comfortable and less of the nerves when meeting FB for the first time? Besides Alcohol.. it is the part before the alcohol high kicks in that i'm concerned about.

Appreciate good advice

Dun think about the sex part that may or may not happen. Treat is as a normal frd meet frd meeting.

[acidicavex]

It is always easy to hide beside the screen coz you will be able to feel comfy and express what you like and wish.

But in real life we are afraid of being judge example a guy might worried he appear too eager or too horny of a person. Or a girl might appear worried she judge being too slutty etc.

It never easy to break the ice you can and might want to try break the ice thru common conversation example.

Where you both know each other apps?? online?? SBF?
Use that a topic to discuss stuff and make yourself and him relax share your experience about it. Cut the crap about talking about your own daily life it get bore.

[unsung80]

Most important, be yourself, meet a few more times you will be experience enough. It just a matter of getting used to it. No need alcohol to break the ice. If not go do something you like and get him to come along if he's ok. Anyway, is it your self-esteem or confident that is bothering you?

[CuteEyesGuy]

I met a few ladies too. Well usually the guy should take the lead to make the meetup not so awkward. Dont jump straight into the sex topic first. Can chat about life or daily happenings. Like meeting up with a friend. Let the night flows by slowly. Usually both should feel more comfy gradually then might not be that awkward already. Then intimacy can come naturally. hope it works for you

[FreebiezWanker]

Originally Posted by Vivienne

Hmm.. yes, think I prefer the guy to take the lead too and when the alcohol high kicks in, who knows.. wink* wink* haha

U sext with me n meet up cfrm wun feel awkward wan... I sure let u comfy n song song...Dun even need alcohol...

[Vivienne]

Oh well.. since i can only upload pic to avatar instead of a post.. too bad

[ceeko]

Originally Posted by Vivienne

Oh well.. since i can only upload pic to avatar instead of a post.. too bad

I bet u got many PMs by now LOL. u wanted to watch me? U got pm

[Vivienne]

Originally Posted by unsung80

Anyway, is it your self-esteem or confident that is bothering you?

Nope, we do exchange pics and stuff to assess if we can move on from just texting, they do like what they see, no complaints so far

[ceeko]

Originally Posted by Vivienne

Nope, we do exchange pics and stuff to assess if we can move on from just texting, they do like what they see, no complaints so far

Where do u find them initially? here or elsewhere?

[ExBro]

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[ExBro]

Originally Posted by ceeko

The more fun part is when there's NO alcohol involved, its even better

Totally agree with Bro Ceeko here...

Just to get some feedback here, if I showed you something like this and follow through with transforming the restored 20 dollar bill into 100 or 1000



Do u think it would help break the ice?

[sexcision]

Originally Posted by ExBro

Totally agree with Bro Ceeko here...

Just to get some feedback here, if I showed you something like this and follow through with transforming the restored 20 dollar bill into 100 or 1000



Do u think it would help break the ice?

Yup. Will certainly break the ice, but if u give the 1000 bill. That will most certain melt it lol