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Old 16-10-2019, 06:19 PM
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How to get rid of awakardness when meeting potential FB

I've met a few guys over the past months, got to know them through Apps and Online sites. Chatting is quite alright, convesations flows, some flirting done and ahem... sexting also and would keep checking my phone for replies but when comes to meeting up in real life... I would be quite hesitant.

It is the anxiousness and nervousness, then I become quiet and the guy just keeps asking if i'm okie?! (quite the pussy, wait... i am a pussy!) Obviously we don't jump on each other's genitals on the first time we meet!

Therefore, any suggestions as to how to make each other more comfortable and less of the nerves when meeting FB for the first time? Besides Alcohol.. it is the part before the alcohol high kicks in that i'm concerned about.

Appreciate good advice
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Old 16-10-2019, 08:06 PM
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Re: How to get rid of awakardness when meeting potential FB

hi dear,

if we could meet up, will show you how to break the ice and awarkness
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Old 16-10-2019, 08:54 PM
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The standard break the ice talk about general stuff slowly build up the relationship hell even talk bout work, Add a tease once in awhile to keep it spicy over dinner and yes alcohol helps
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Re: How to get rid of awakardness when meeting potential FB

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I've met a few guys over the past months, got to know them through Apps and Online sites. Chatting is quite alright, convesations flows, some flirting done and ahem... sexting also and would keep checking my phone for replies but when comes to meeting up in real life... I would be quite hesitant.

It is the anxiousness and nervousness, then I become quiet and the guy just keeps asking if i'm okie?! (quite the pussy, wait... i am a pussy!) Obviously we don't jump on each other's genitals on the first time we meet!

Therefore, any suggestions as to how to make each other more comfortable and less of the nerves when meeting FB for the first time? Besides Alcohol.. it is the part before the alcohol high kicks in that i'm concerned about.

Appreciate good advice
You are a very confusing girl and you are confusing us. One minute you said you have already met a few guys already, chat well with them, conversation flow, there was flirting, sexting almost everything you have done already with those guys and yet you are saying you are hesitant to meet them up in real life because of awkwardness and nervousness and what nought ? Which is which now ? Have you or have you not met up any guy in real life yet ?
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Re: How to get rid of awakardness when meeting potential FB

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Re: How to get rid of awakardness when meeting potential FB

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I've met a few guys over the past months, got to know them through Apps and Online sites. Chatting is quite alright, convesations flows, some flirting done and ahem... sexting also and would keep checking my phone for replies but when comes to meeting up in real life... I would be quite hesitant.

It is the anxiousness and nervousness, then I become quiet and the guy just keeps asking if i'm okie?! (quite the pussy, wait... i am a pussy!) Obviously we don't jump on each other's genitals on the first time we meet!

Therefore, any suggestions as to how to make each other more comfortable and less of the nerves when meeting FB for the first time? Besides Alcohol.. it is the part before the alcohol high kicks in that i'm concerned about.

Appreciate good advice
Drink as much as u could during conversation.... Out to have fun right? No need shy
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Re: How to get rid of awakardness when meeting potential FB

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You are a very confusing girl and you are confusing us. One minute you said you have already met a few guys already, chat well with them, conversation flow, there was flirting, sexting almost everything you have done already with those guys and yet you are saying you are hesitant to meet them up in real life because of awkwardness and nervousness and what nought ? Which is which now ? Have you or have you not met up any guy in real life yet ?
Hmm.. -_-
yes, I’ve met a few in real life, just that meeting up in person, I tend to be more reserved as compared to texting! Like we can text random nonsense stuff but when meet up in person, I feel awkward and don’t really initiate conversations. Like that can understand? Haha
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Re: How to get rid of awakardness when meeting potential FB

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Drink as much as u could during conversation.... Out to have fun right? No need shy
The fun starts when alcohol takes effect
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Old 16-10-2019, 10:27 PM
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The fun starts when alcohol takes effect
The more fun part is when there's NO alcohol involved, its even better
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Re: How to get rid of awakardness when meeting potential FB

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Hmm.. -_-
yes, I’ve met a few in real life, just that meeting up in person, I tend to be more reserved as compared to texting! Like we can text random nonsense stuff but when meet up in person, I feel awkward and don’t really initiate conversations. Like that can understand? Haha
Oh I see. I get what you mean now girl. Thanks for the clear explanation oh if it is like that, then treat your meet up as if you were texting in your mind. Important thing is bring your sexting atmosphere into the meet up or treat him like you are his lover already or like any normal friend or stranger you are meeting for the first time I think the awkwardness and nervousness will quickly go off
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Old 16-10-2019, 11:05 PM
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Re: How to get rid of awakardness when meeting potential FB

It’s okay for you to feel awkward.

It’s only awkward if the guy feels awkward because the guy quite naturally, should be taking the lead initially.
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Old 16-10-2019, 11:28 PM
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Re: How to get rid of awakardness when meeting potential FB

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It’s okay for you to feel awkward.

It’s only awkward if the guy feels awkward because the guy quite naturally, should be taking the lead initially.
Hmm.. yes, think I prefer the guy to take the lead too and when the alcohol high kicks in, who knows.. wink* wink* haha
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Old 17-10-2019, 12:46 AM
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Re: How to get rid of awakardness when meeting potential FB

How about, just role play, meet straight at the theatres and text while 'watching' a movie? Alternatively... just have to go to a cafe to chat while sitting next to each instead of across. I find that this helps a lot more?
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Old 17-10-2019, 01:32 AM
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The more fun part is when there's NO alcohol involved, its even better
This i totally agree! Been there done that. Managed to visit my fwb when she was sick. And the rest was history
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Old 17-10-2019, 01:53 AM
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Re: How to get rid of awakardness when meeting potential FB

I think similar interests or hobbies or topics that interest the both of you to be great conversation starters n from there it helps to break the ice n initial awkwardness. Could be a movie you just saw or wants to see, a concert maybe or even food. I think when you agree to meet up with someone after chatting with them over text, there has to be some common topics or interest that caught your attention hence you decide to meet.

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