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Old 08-05-2019, 03:37 PM
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Re: Picking up KTV gals ouside KTVs

Good afternoon,

What an auspicious day!!

I still go to KTV outings occasionally. But I often do a free tour of Peace Centre joints. All bros are invited to join me FOC, usually around 6 pm and sometimes 9 pm. Just send me a pm.

I do hv a couple of new kakis who are interested in going to Lido or P8 for SH next week.

Join me if interested.

Cheers!

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Good replies by bro WB.

Thanks for a great thread!
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My exact sentiments, let her be the one to decide.

Thanks bro WB for giving us a wonderful thread.

Have a nice holiday.
Bros, tks.

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Bro WB

You are just a nice gentleman. Why bothered with asshole who come here to be jealous of you and your conquest.

Seriously I dun care a fark if I am you.

Please continue to share with us.

Happy weekend and enjoy yourself.
Bro, tks.

I don't care about these self-proclaimed gurus or 情场的一代宗师, I'm merely interested in meeting their supposed superchio and FOC SYTs/young women to get a side by side comparison w/ my young LPs. To see what I hv been missing in life.

I'll pay all expenses. My offer has no expiration date.

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Bro Wb

Thank you for sharing above forum.

Now I knew what gal wants me to do if she upset. I will lend her my shoulders and let her cry it all out.

What a fabulous advice.

Happy weekend.
Bro, the guru's advice is fantastic.

I always try to hug them, sometimes quite tight...

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I also will lend her my shoulders to cry on too.

Thanks bro WB for a fantastic thread.

Cheers.
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Very good thread by bro WB, hope to learn more here

Have a great weekend
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Agree, I wouldn't give a fark too.

Thanks bro WB for a really interesting thread.

God bless.
Bros, thanks.

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Bro WB

What a great forum below.

I understand now walking away will be great. Thanks for the effort to start this thread.

Hope you achieve all your future endeavours.

Cheers.
Bro, tks.

It's very powerful. It's an indication that you want her, but you don't need her...

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Bro WB

Thank you for shairng nice forum below.

Cheers.
Yes, we must become prestigious men who give value to society.

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Bro WB

Nice forum and I learned so much now after reading forum below.

I shall behave no face expression and normal.

Cheers.
Bro, if a very beautiful girl of your type rejects you, it's her BIG loss.

It's because she is not smart enough to recognize you as the grand prize. Feel sorry for her. You may want to give her another chance. So smile and walk away. And let her initiate contact w/ you. Be unflappable and as cool as cucumber.

The above is the ONLY winning mindset or frame that will make your dream girl fall for u.

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Yes, nice share indeed, thanks bro WB

Have a great weekend.
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Thanks bro Wb for the good effort to start this thread too.

It is a really marvellous thread.

Have a nice day.
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Appreciate bro WB's effort in sharing so much with us.

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Agreed, what for blame life?

Have a nice day.
Bros, thanks!

Wishing all samsters a great day,

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Old 09-05-2019, 10:46 AM
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Re: Picking up KTV gals ouside KTVs

Good morning,

I received a PM from a senior bro re my free tours at KTV joints yesterday. And my honest reply to him.

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Yo bro,
Thank you for organising and imparting your wisdom.

Wanted to find out what is this tour about? Am keen to know more about the ktv scene
Bro,

Since TAM joints at Havelock closed in early 2015, I hv been going to Peace Centre KTV joints about 3 times a week. Mostly for brief tours, which is free of charge. It takes abt 30 minutes or less. I usually go there around 6 pm and sometimes 9:15 pm.

I'll try to look at every girl/woman inside and outside the joints and in the cafeteria downstairs. Oftentimes, I also wait by the roadside or outside nearby schools around PC.

In the rare occasion that I see a girl I like, I'll get her contact info. I'll try to look at her from different angles first. But often this is impossible as these girls move fast. It's hard to access her true attractiveness because of the brevity of interaction, which is usually not more than a few minutes, and the dim light of these joints. Her makeup, hairdo and high heels are other confounding factors.

I'll then look at her photos n video in her Wechat Moments at my leisure. I often want to see her again before deciding if she is good enough for me. If I think she may hv met my standards, I'll organize or join an outing n get her to butterfly at Jade or China Doll or book her at Dynasty.

I used to organize very frequent outings to or join my friends at these and other joints years ago. But I seldom do so now because I hv had difficulty finding girls good enough for booking or butterfly. I often bring a LP to such outings as I don't want to sit alone.

I like FOC tours because it may take me many weeks before I find a girl who is mildly interesting.

Give me your contact if you want to join my free tours at PC joints.

Cheers!

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Old 09-05-2019, 05:09 PM
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Re: Picking up KTV gals ouside KTVs

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Bro,

Since TAM joints at Havelock closed in early 2015, I hv been going to Peace Centre KTV joints about 3 times a week. Mostly for brief tours, which is free of charge. It takes abt 30 minutes or less. I usually go there around 6 pm and sometimes 9:15 pm.

I'll try to look at every girl/woman inside and outside the joints and in the cafeteria downstairs. Oftentimes, I also wait by the roadside or outside nearby schools around PC.

In the rare occasion that I see a girl I like, I'll get her contact info. I'll try to look at her from different angles first. But often this is impossible as these girls move fast. It's hard to access her true attractiveness because of the brevity of interaction, which is usually not more than a few minutes, and the dim light of these joints. Her makeup, hairdo and high heels are other confounding factors.

I'll then look at her photos n video in her Wechat Moments at my leisure. I often want to see her again before deciding if she is good enough for me. If I think she may hv met my standards, I'll organize or join an outing n get her to butterfly at Jade or China Doll or book her at Dynasty.

I used to organize very frequent outings to or join my friends at these and other joints years ago. But I seldom do so now because I hv had difficulty finding girls good enough for booking or butterfly. I often bring a LP to such outings as I don't want to sit alone.

I like FOC tours because it may take me many weeks before I find a girl who is mildly interesting.

Give me your contact if you want to join my free tours at PC joints.

Cheers!

Bro WB
Nice share bro WB, thanks for a fantastic thread!
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Old 10-05-2019, 12:14 AM
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Re: Picking up KTV gals ouside KTVs

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Bros, thanks!

Wishing all samsters a great day,

Bro WB
Wishing you a nice day too, thanks bro
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Old 10-05-2019, 12:23 PM
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Some pussies will say no to all the money n treasures in this world. They are like Brutus in Julius Caesar when he said: " I love the name of honor more than I fear death." For such dolls, there are many effective strategies to unlock their pussies...

Let me reiterate: Money may get u most pussies, but it will not help to capture their hearts. Use of excessive money may backfire. I want a doll's pussy n her heart.

You also forgot another big factor: TIME


Yes! Some Pussies will say no to all the money once they know that name of honor is worth a million. I do experience it in my life.
What a marvelous words that captured my minds and hearts.
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Old 10-05-2019, 12:25 PM
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Re: Picking up KTV gals ouside KTVs

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Good morning bro XinJiao,

No, not dulan.

Can't expect to meet a new SYT/woman of my type everyday. By going often, my odds of finding one are increased.

I'm always n forever mode one. When I meet a gal I like to up, I'll whisper to her exactly what is in my mind asap. I'm radically honest, direct n upfront. If I want to up her tmr, I'll say so. If I find her sexy, I'll explain to her why. Must point out some of her flaws too...

If you're always brutally honest w/ a gal, she will find you more trustworthy, more genuine, more attractive, more masculine n less manipulative than a wussy "nice guy" who tries to flatter or suck up to her in order to get into her pants.

I was mode one w/ the two old singers the other day. One said I was very cute n the other said she would go to dinner w/ me FOC, but she would need to return to Lido by 8:30PM. I may not hv time for them.

Always have the abundance mindset n be mode one. Most importantly, you must possess formidable emotional mastery like a zen master.

Be very calm, relaxed, happy n self-assured whether your dream gal has just agreed to be your lover or just flatly rejected you. You feel exactly the same n you're totally detached to the outcome. She rejects u because she is not wise enough n well informed enough 还不开窍 to recognize your value, you must give the hapless gal more time to recognize u as the prize.

Cheers!

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Bro WB

Thanks for nice forum.

Mode one is good practice and really no point to be shy.

Offer 100 and sure 1 to 2 may bite.

Anyway after several weeks more women may bite.

Cheers.
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Old 10-05-2019, 01:14 PM
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Re: Picking up KTV gals ouside KTVs

Dear Bro Warbird,

In general, between lido, palace 8 and dynasty, during HH, which joint will have more prettier gals. Or perhaps any advise.

Thanks
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Old 10-05-2019, 01:55 PM
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Bro WB

Thanks for nice forum.

Mode one is good practice and really no point to be shy.

Offer 100 and sure 1 to 2 may bite.

Anyway after several weeks more women may bite.

Cheers.
Fully agreed too mode one is good practice.

Thanks bro WB for a very nice forum.

Have a great weekend.
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Old 10-05-2019, 04:23 PM
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What a marvelous words that captured my minds and hearts.
Captured my mind and heart too.

Thanks bro WB for an awesome thread
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Old 10-05-2019, 06:13 PM
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Good thread, learn a lot from here
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Very good thread, must learn from bro TS
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Re: Picking up KTV gals ouside KTVs

I have learnt so much too from this forum too.

Thanks bro WB for exceptional sharing.

Have a wonderful weekend.

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Nice forum and I learned so much now after reading forum below.

I shall behave no face expression and normal.

Cheers.
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Old 11-05-2019, 02:37 PM
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Hi bro Korean,

Thank you so much for your post.

Self mastery n emotional mastery is NOT specific to man-woman RS.

A man who has even a little of it will never need to be a gigolo. Such a lowly person will hv little control when he meets his special one. King Fuchai had very little n Johnny Depp has none.

What is ABSOLUTE SELF and EMOTIONAL MASTERY?

Two examples:

1) If you are captured by a group of terrorists n they are going to torture you n kill you slowly, yet you smile n hv zero fear.

2) A woman you hv loved deeply for years suddenly wants to leave you w/ your beloved kids, for no apparent reason. You smile n wish her well. You leave n never look back. You feel the same joy as if you just won the grand prize in Powerball.

IF you're such a MAN, then I'll kneel down n call you my master n sifu. I'll do whatever it takes to become such a MAN asap. Provided you're not demented n not a psychotic.

Saint Paul exhibited absolute self mastery when he was in the infamous Mamertine Prison in ancient Rome, before his crucifixion.

The MAN in the poem IF is good enough for me:

If you can keep your head when all about you
Are losing theirs and blaming it on you;
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,
But make allowance for their doubting too:
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
Or, being lied about, don't deal in lies,
Or being hated don't give way to hating,
And yet don't look too good, nor talk too wise;

If you can dream---and not make dreams your master;
If you can think---and not make thoughts your aim,
If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster
And treat those two impostors just the same:.
If you can bear to hear the truth you've spoken
Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken,
And stoop and build'em up with worn-out tools;

If you can make one heap of all your winnings
And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
And lose, and start again at your beginnings,
And never breathe a word about your loss:
If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
To serve your turn long after they are gone,
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
Except the Will which says to them: "Hold on!"

If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
Or walk with Kings---nor lose the common touch,
If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you,
If all men count with you, but none too much:
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
With sixty seconds' worth of distance run,
Yours is the Earth and everything that's in it,
And---which is more---you'll be a Man, my son!

Rudyard Kipling

There is not a greater power on earth for a MAN to possess than absolute self n emotional mastery.

“He who controls others may be powerful, but he who has mastered himself is mightier still.”
― Lao Tzu


Cheers!

Bro WB
Bro WB

Nice forum and I shall remember this forever.

“He who controls others may be powerful, but he who has mastered himself is mightier still.”
― Lao Tzu


Also to possess self-mastery to have better control.

Happy weekend.
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Old 11-05-2019, 02:39 PM
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Re: Picking up KTV gals ouside KTVs

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Bro WB

Nice forum and I shall remember this forever.

“He who controls others may be powerful, but he who has mastered himself is mightier still.”
― Lao Tzu


Also to possess self-mastery to have better control.

Happy weekend.
I shall remember Lao Tzu too.

Thanks bro WB for a nice thread.

Cheers.
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Old 11-05-2019, 02:40 PM
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Good morning!

If your legal wife/mistress/lao po/GF/lover is a very attractive SYT/young woman, you should expect many hungry, frustrated n wussy men to hit on
her everyday. You should welcome that. Because it's a strong confirmation that your doll is very attractive n desirable. And, as a prestigious badass gentleman, you hv zero jealousy n zero fear of losing her, yeah?

You hv zero fear because you hv the mindset that a 100 very attractive young women of your type, mostly non WLs, are calling you n wanting to fuck you every day...it may actually be a blessing if you lose your ALL your current gals. Believe it in your S mind n see miracles happen!

Not to mention that you also hv formidable emotional mastery n self mastery. Many hungry n desperate young men after your doll? Bring it on! They better watch out because u COULD easily walk away w/ their prettiest dolls, IF, and this is a big IF, they hv even one GF good enough for you. Of course, you should do so only when it's safe. These desperate men may resort to violence. You COULD, but you won't want to.

I just received the following email from David Deangelo on the above subject. He has sent me the same email several times in the past. I first read his ebooks about 8 years ago.

Competition From Other Men - How To Handle It

Hi Bro Warbird,

Make 5 small tweaks to the way that you carry yourself (in other words, how you stand and walk).

These will automatically cause your body to project what's called PRIMAL DOMINANCE.

When you do, it's scientific:

You trigger feelings in a woman that she can neither HELP nor RESIST...a literal animal attraction that draws her to YOU (whether she wants to meet a man right now or not).

Click here to make it happen TONIGHT!


***DATING QUESTION FROM A READER***

I am recently divorced and found myself having a
hard time making connections with women after
being in a 9-year relationship. Before I met my
ex-wife I considered myself as a "player" and had
little trouble finding girls to go out with.
After being out of the scene for so long, I had
lots of trouble trying to get back in to the
swing of things. Your ebook and emails have
instantly put me back in the game and I am now
getting dates with very attractive women! It's
been amazing!!
Thank You!

Now for the question. All these attractive women
have brought something into my dates that I am
not used to, Men (Cock Blockers)! Currently, I
am dating this "bomb-shell" occasionally and when
we go out on a date, men will hit on her as soon
as they get a chance. If I turn my back for
second, some guy will try to make eye contact or
say something to her. I don't blame the guys
because she is very hot, but how do I deal with
this in a way that shows I am 100% confident?
Typically, I just laugh and continue to have a
good time by ignoring the lame ass attempts to
pick up on my date, but there has to be a way
that I can turn this around to make me look more
confident in her eyes.

You're the man,

B from Colorado


>>>MY COMMENTS:

Well then...welcome back!

I've noticed that the period after breaking up with a long-term girlfriend or spouse is often a difficult one.

I think it's easy for men (and women) to become so comfortable and emotionally dependent in a relationship that they experience a lot of FEAR
when ending that relationship...

"What's going to happen?"

"Will I ever meet another woman?"

"How do I get started?"

...etc.

I can remember breaking up with long-term girlfriends in years past, and feeling an empty, fearful, LONELY combination of emotions in my gut that was HORRIBLE.

That ALONE feeling is enough to cause a lot of problems.

Add to that, not knowing where to start, what to do, or how to "get your game back" if you had it in the past, and you usually get a bad situation.

I've learned that knowing how to go out anytime and meet women has a couple of MAJOR benefits when it comes to this area:

1) When you know that you can meet women anytime you want, it makes you stop acting so NEEDY and CLINGY in a relationship. Most needy and
clingy Wuss behaviors are rooted in the FEAR that you'll never be able to find another woman.

2) When it comes to ENDING a relationship, this skill makes things MUCH easier. Too many guys stay in relationships that are bad for them, and
are afraid to END a relationship because of that deeply-rooted insecurity that comes from not knowing how to walk out the door anytime, anywhere and meet women. When you know how to do this, you won't try to hold on like a girly-man, sacrifice your own respect and dignity, pleading and begging, and ultimately make the situation much worse than it would have been if you would have just walked away.

In short, what I'm trying to say is that I think understanding this area called "How to attract women" is KEY to having a good relationship.

When you have that inner confidence and KNOWING, it makes you more attractive...period.

Now let's talk about what to do when there is competition from other guys...

First I want to talk about what I believe is at the ROOT of the problem:

1) INSECURITY.

2) JEALOUSY.

When you are insecure, you're always wondering if some other guy is going to come along and steal your girl.

This often shows up as a combination of feelings that make you worry about losing your girl, and at the same time worrying about not being able to find another one if you DO lose this one.

This is a BAD, BAD thing because it then CLOUDS YOUR THINKING, and creates an illusion that the woman you're with is BETTER than she is, and that you're WORSE than you are.

We're talking about some deep issues here, but this is the stuff that triggers the ULTIMATE WUSS types of behaviors.

Then, as if things weren't bad enough, you go out with your girl, and other guys start hitting on her right in front of you.

This triggers MORE insecurity, and then the REAL problem...JEALOUSY.

Jealousy is an incredibly powerful emotion.

It often leads people to KILL people they love.

One scientist wrote an entire book about Jealousy, and basically claimed that it was the most powerful and important emotion ever! (The book is called "The Dangerous Passion"...referring to jealousy)

When you're out with your girl, you turn around to order a drink, and when you turn BACK around there's some guy talking to her with that "I'd love to take you home and do things that the lord forbids", it can trigger a few emotions...

This is very natural. Animals have this same response in similar situations. I personally believe that we come pre-wired with BOTH of these things:

- We come pre-wired to want women that other men already have (Don't covet thy neighbor's wife).

- We come pre-wired to feel jealousy if we suspect that our spouse is cheating or if we think that someone is going to take them from us.

Again, normal and natural stuff.

If Yoda were here, he'd probably say:

"Jealousy is useless...

...Jealousy leads to anger, anger leads to INSECURE WUSSY BEHAVIOR... and insecure Wussy behavior leads to the DARK SIDE."

Now, jealousy doesn't always lead to insecure WUSSY behavior, sometimes it leads to insecure DUMB ASS behavior, like getting into a fight, or shooting someone.

Some men enjoy fights and violence.

And some women have no problem dating a man who likes to beat other men up (or beat her up).

I personally think that violence and hurting other people is the IGNORANT way to deal with things.

But, I also know that there are a lot of guys out there that don't share my views.

The POINT I'm trying to make is that insecurity and jealousy make people do all kinds of stupid and thoughtless things.

These emotions take over your mind and body, and can trigger some of the most short-sighted behaviors you'll ever experience.

These are complex emotions that have evolved over millions and millions of years...and they're not going away anytime soon. In many cases, they literally take control of your mind and body.

For instance...

Let's say you've just broken up with your girlfriend or wife, and it took you a long time to finally get a date with an attractive woman. Maybe you were feeling insecure and didn't know if you could meet another woman, and let's say that the breakup was hard on you as well.

Let's say you're out at a bar with your new date and you excuse yourself to use the boy's room... and when you get back, there are TWO big, handsome guys talking to your date, and she's laughing hysterically at what they're saying.

What would most guys do in this situation?

THEY'D FREAK. That's what.

All kinds of fear, jealousy, insecurity, etc. would INSTANTLY take over, and there would be thoughts of her wanting to be with these guys, them taking her away, etc.

And what do most guys actually DO in one of these situations?

They walk over, act nervous, and try to take the girl away from the situation. And they make the mistake of making it OBVIOUS that they're all
freaked out, intimidated, jealous, and insecure.

This, of course, only makes the other guys feel more powerful, and makes the woman realize that she's with an insecure WUSS.

It becomes a self-fulfilling prophesy, in most cases.

As a side note: I have met and know of guys who actually ENJOY picking up women who are out with other guys. It's a game to them.

And they've found that it's EASY, because most men are insecure, and most women don't want to be with a WUSS...

So what's the answer here?

(To Be Continued)
Nice forum from bro WB.

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