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Re: What is the right income to get a SG wife

Millions of dollars
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Re: What is the right income to get a SG wife

If the girl before had a luxury life, it would cost millions.

If the girl seldom go for holidays or buy branded, start working at the age of 17-18, no clubbing, the cost will be lower alot.
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Re: What is the right income to get a SG wife

As an old man, wanted to share some of my personal learnings

1. Education is extremely important although a lot is about wayang. Some phds are kumgong in real life. Never step out of their small lab. EQ extremely low but ppl still look up to them. I have seen super street smart ppl without cert, most ppl look down on them

2. It is about career. Don’t start with driving as a career. There is no career progression. Some of my friend who cannot make it in school went to do sales, property or any selling job. As long as you can create value for the company, you are good. Many of them become directors for big companies

3. Continue to get that piece of paper. Got a few overseas school easy to get degree. Any cock school is good as long as it is recognised. Some of my director friends who did badly in school just get 1 chapalang degree can liao.

4. When you have working experience, employers look at how you can contribute as compared to your chapalang degree. It is there to supplement

Back to women.

1. For those highly educated ones (earning $10k to $20k a month), they want more than sex. You must be able to converse well, give them surprises, can cook, must be presentation to their friends, must plan holiday well etc...being horny alone will get eliminated

2. For typical women, they want someone presentation. They rather have a doctor/ lawyer than earn $10k a month compared to one cha kway tiao seller that earns $30k a month. This kind easier to show to parents and relatives.

Usually good women (not fussy about pay, kind hearted) are all taken very early liao. Those not taken ones at the age of 35 usually listed in my above 2 categories.
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Usually good women (not fussy about pay, kind hearted) are all taken very early liao. Those not taken ones at the age of 35 usually listed in my above 2 categories.
Good analysis and summary.

Wonder if the men also have such categories.
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Re: What is the right income to get a SG wife

How much money do you think it would take to get an f-cup Singaporean Chinese FL to be your Long-term gal friend or even Wife?

Especially if she is a ceo’s Sales PA
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Re: What is the right income to get a SG wife

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Dear bros,

I am seeking your honest opinion on this.

I am in my mid thirties and find it extremely hard to get a date in singapore becasue of my career or lack of it.

I am currently a driver drawing a salary of $1800 and there are many women who seemed to get frightened away the moment i mention my job and career.

I am not pro China, vietnamese or women from other countries as I simply do not trust them. yes, chinese women are hotter than sg women without a doubt, yet i am not looking for a gf nor a fling but a wife.

Can i know what is the suitable salary for a men to get a date/wife at age 35/36 years old.

I am an o level graduate only. Though I had very good academic results (8 A1s and 1 A2) for O levels, I did not proceed to study A levels and university as my family is simply to poor at that point of time. My mum is sick and cannot work and my dad is retrenched so I had to start working immediately after O levels.

I am finding it so hard to get attached now. I am looking for women that are 29- 30 years old
You should get government grant through MP recommendation or our Chinese chamber association to help you for your study when young.

You have wasted your good academic results (8 A1s and 1 A2) for O levels ).

Now you can study part-time diploma 1st
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Dear bros,

I am seeking your honest opinion on this.

I am in my mid thirties and find it extremely hard to get a date in singapore becasue of my career or lack of it.

I am currently a driver drawing a salary of $1800 and there are many women who seemed to get frightened away the moment i mention my job and career.

I am not pro China, vietnamese or women from other countries as I simply do not trust them. yes, chinese women are hotter than sg women without a doubt, yet i am not looking for a gf nor a fling but a wife.


Can i know what is the suitable salary for a men to get a date/wife at age 35/36 years old.

I am an o level graduate only. Though I had very good academic results (8 A1s and 1 A2) for O levels, I did not proceed to study A levels and university as my family is simply to poor at that point of time. My mum is sick and cannot work and my dad is retrenched so I had to start working immediately after O levels.

I am finding it so hard to get attached now. I am looking for women that are 29- 30 years old
I started full time employment in my early 30s. Wasted my 20s in some other ways. Granted I have a leg up cos I had my degree.

What I am trying to say is, you need to upgrade your paper, as what some of the bros here are saying.

Also perhaps you can see what interests you?
You mentioned you were a model.
Is there something along the modeling line that you think could put you a leg up to earn some money?
A trainer for up and coming models?
A photographer?
Videographer?

I not familiar with modeling business but you yourself would know better.

There are always many ways to make more money.
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Re: What is the right income to get a SG wife

Hi TS,

Just to share my personal story with you.

I got my diploma 10 years ago when I was near to my 30s.
I went through WDA to get my diploma and back then it was with 90% funding from them. I did badly for my O levels and that's why I didn't continue my studies back then. I know WDA still funding for local citizens but it's up to 75% but better than nothing right? With your modelling background, why don't consider going into media, marketing or advertising job? (Just a suggestion)

Honestly, if you yourself look down on your choice of career, your lack of confidence is what really turns ladies off. You can be anything in this world, but once you look on your own job/career, you will never be contented at all. Take for example my fiance, he is in the construction line in his country. But he is never ashamed of it. In fact, it is his dream job to do what he is doing. My point is, firstly, you need to learn what you are good at doing. Secondly, you need to love it and be passionate about it. And lastly, be so good at doing it. First, you need to build up your own confidence in terms of work/ job you choose before anything else. Once you have the confidence, everything else will fall into place. It took me 30 years of my life to finally found what I am damn good at and so passionate about it. And it took me a few years to get to where I am now. Recently, I did the risk and jump into a fairly new but definitely growing company as a entry level. No complains about it. Lower level but I got the same pay. Why? Because I am experienced and has been in this industry for years. Oh, by the way, I got hired based on my experience not my education. It's never too old to learn and never too old to start a totally new career. We are definitely so blessed to have so many opportunities in our country compared to other developed countries.
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Just sharing my experience on dating apps and websites. Tried looking Local Chinese ladies, late 40 till 55. I'm 48. OK looks, overweight. First they ask yr profession then pay. I always say I'm a driver, pay $2.5k no car. Then they just stop messaging. Imagine 55 years old woman still looks down on a $2.5k salary, just let these unrealistic old woman die alone. On the contrary I get lots of attention from foreign workers, maids, young and pretty. They just want company and some love. As long you treat them nice, don't need expensive lunch, food court/fast food is OK. Give them your time and take them shopping (simple items not Coach, Michael Kors) and they are truely happy.I Rather spend my time n money on someone younger n prettier, then trying to please old local Chinese aunties/some ah ma already. I've given up on looking for local ladies, they are still looking for mates at this age because they are too picky.
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Re: What is the right income to get a SG wife

I think no fixed amount or it. As long can provide her needs and she can have some for her leisure. I think should ok.
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Just sharing my experience on dating apps and websites. Tried looking Local Chinese ladies, late 40 till 55. I'm 48. OK looks, overweight. First they ask yr profession then pay. I always say I'm a driver, pay $2.5k no car. Then they just stop messaging. Imagine 55 years old woman still looks down on a $2.5k salary, just let these unrealistic old woman die alone. On the contrary I get lots of attention from foreign workers, maids, young and pretty. They just want company and some love. As long you treat them nice, don't need expensive lunch, food court/fast food is OK. Give them your time and take them shopping (simple items not Coach, Michael Kors) and they are truely happy.I Rather spend my time n money on someone younger n prettier, then trying to please old local Chinese aunties/some ah ma already. I've given up on looking for local ladies, they are still looking for mates at this age because they are too picky.
My fren have a vietnam gf. He told her his salary only S$3k a month (disposable income is 1k after deducting house, parents, etc) and he never help to pay anything for her. Even when she come sg to visit also ownself pay. She making only S$1k a month in hcmc and age gap of 10 years.
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My fren have a vietnam gf. He told her his salary only S$3k a month (disposable income is 1k after deducting house, parents, etc) and he never help to pay anything for her. Even when she come sg to visit also ownself pay. She making only S$1k a month in hcmc and age gap of 10 years.
They hope to get marriage here so they can have a better life, Vietnamese women are hardworking and dont mind working to help the family. Those old Singaporean woman want to marry a rich man so she can dont work, why marry a salary man and still continue working. Dont bother with picky old Singapore woman. Lazy and take men for granted.
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How much money do you think it would take to get an f-cup Singaporean Chinese FL to be your Long-term gal friend or even Wife?

Especially if she is a ceo’s Sales PA
$20k la. Also depending on whether she is those humble type or spendthrift type. During one of my overseas posting, I know one PA of a CEO. Quite steady. Has a few property and every day drink red wine. Lol! When I know her, machiam every day leech on her. Free food and free drinks. Lol! Also can stay overnight at a few property.
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Just sharing my experience on dating apps and websites. Tried looking Local Chinese ladies, late 40 till 55. I'm 48. OK looks, overweight. First they ask yr profession then pay. I always say I'm a driver, pay $2.5k no car. Then they just stop messaging. Imagine 55 years old woman still looks down on a $2.5k salary, just let these unrealistic old woman die alone. On the contrary I get lots of attention from foreign workers, maids, young and pretty. They just want company and some love. As long you treat them nice, don't need expensive lunch, food court/fast food is OK. Give them your time and take them shopping (simple items not Coach, Michael Kors) and they are truely happy.I Rather spend my time n money on someone younger n prettier, then trying to please old local Chinese aunties/some ah ma already. I've given up on looking for local ladies, they are still looking for mates at this age because they are too picky.
Can’t compare la bro. I have a few highly educated female friends. Some of them drove fancy car like Maserati, Ferrari, Bentley. They are not Hao Lian as sometimes they take MRT too. Occasionally they give ppl a ride home in their fancy car if they drive.

They are happy to stay single (seriously don’t know whether they are horny or not). But they love to have conversations and discussions over various topics. Don’t mind joining for short trips etc. Buying ppl lunches/ dinner. Avoid those who ask for occupation and pay directly. Lol!
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Hi TS,

Just to share my personal story with you.

I got my diploma 10 years ago when I was near to my 30s.
I went through WDA to get my diploma and back then it was with 90% funding from them. I did badly for my O levels and that's why I didn't continue my studies back then. I know WDA still funding for local citizens but it's up to 75% but better than nothing right? With your modelling background, why don't consider going into media, marketing or advertising job? (Just a suggestion)

Honestly, if you yourself look down on your choice of career, your lack of confidence is what really turns ladies off. You can be anything in this world, but once you look on your own job/career, you will never be contented at all. Take for example my fiance, he is in the construction line in his country. But he is never ashamed of it. In fact, it is his dream job to do what he is doing. My point is, firstly, you need to learn what you are good at doing. Secondly, you need to love it and be passionate about it. And lastly, be so good at doing it. First, you need to build up your own confidence in terms of work/ job you choose before anything else. Once you have the confidence, everything else will fall into place. It took me 30 years of my life to finally found what I am damn good at and so passionate about it. And it took me a few years to get to where I am now. Recently, I did the risk and jump into a fairly new but definitely growing company as a entry level. No complains about it. Lower level but I got the same pay. Why? Because I am experienced and has been in this industry for years. Oh, by the way, I got hired based on my experience not my education. It's never too old to learn and never too old to start a totally new career. We are definitely so blessed to have so many opportunities in our country compared to other developed countries.
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