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Old 22-09-2020, 11:08 PM
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Simply cannot feel much of anything through a condom. Anyone else?

When I was young I was a chronic masturbator and didn't lose my virginity until 23. I think that this may have permanently decreased the sensation in my penis. I'm now in my mid-30s and continue to battle desensitization. It's an ongoing problem.

I've tried literally dozens of condoms from .001 to small to large to form-fitting to textured to latex to polyurethane to using lube inside and out, etc.

Nothing works. 90% of the time I lose my erection or I pump away until I'm bored or tired because I just can't feel much of anything. The other 10% of the time with a condom is ok, but this only happens when the situation is optimal (haven't had sex in ages, not nervous, very horny, using my favorite condoms and not some generic Durex).

In fact, depending on the girl, I might not even feel much of anything even when going raw because different girls have different textures inside and different levels of tightness. Ones that are smooth and tight do little for me.

And to prove its not a psychological thing, I can't finish or stay hard with any condom even when I use a pocket pussy that normally always gets me off (and quickly) when I'm not using a condom. I'm in the comfort of my own home - but I just. Can't. Feel. Hardly. Anything.

And like real pussies, not all pocket pussies can get me off. Ones with a more "natural" texture and tight ones don't do anything for me, despite them getting lots of great reviews. I have to go for ones with a more aggressive texture and larger cavity.

So... does anyone else have this problem? I don't use my hands to masturbate anymore - haven't for a decade. I only use a pocket pussy with lube, but I seem to have a permanent loss of sensation.

Anyone else in the same boat and how did you deal with it?

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Old 30-09-2020, 02:16 PM
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Re: Simply cannot feel much of anything through a condom. Anyone else?

I just go raw as much as I can. Wearing a condom sucks, less feel and less sensation
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Re: Simply cannot feel much of anything through a condom. Anyone else?

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90% of the time I lose my erection
What has happened is that over the years your mind/penis has become conditioned to using your hand to stimulate, in order for you to reverse it you might have to go cold turkey and stop to masturbate for a month minimum after which, you should start to see your condition improve slowly after that, but it takes time

Its something that happens to most of us when we are younger but its something that is quite reversible
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Old 02-10-2020, 10:24 AM
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Re: Simply cannot feel much of anything through a condom. Anyone else?

Condom for intercourse, maybe not for BJ.
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Old 02-10-2020, 09:42 PM
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Re: Simply cannot feel much of anything through a condom. Anyone else?

agree with you , I realized this ages ago when an article says , condom can help you last longer. it does that by making it less sensitive.

most of my intercourse ended with me using my hand instead , coz too tired.
again this is coz the partner isn't as compatible.

but when i got the compatible one , which is rare.
is fantastic.

and If you are circumcized , your head will also have lesser sensitivity to those who doesn't.

this is based on my experienced and knowledge.

so yes I agree with going cold turkey for a good 5-7 days. this helps.

just sharing my thoughts.
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Old 27-10-2020, 04:45 PM
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Re: Simply cannot feel much of anything through a condom. Anyone else?

Seriously consider cold turkey . Also try jg massage to repair the tool without cumming of cos . Keep mind pure and refrain from porn or stimulants for 2-3mths . It ll come back .
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Old 27-10-2020, 05:30 PM
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Re: Simply cannot feel much of anything through a condom. Anyone else?

i think it's normal. If the girl is tight, and i'm using a condom, it's not fun for me also. Just pain

that's y i mostly prefer bbbj over penetration with condom
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Old 27-10-2020, 06:47 PM
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Re: Simply cannot feel much of anything through a condom. Anyone else?

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I just go raw as much as I can. Wearing a condom sucks, less feel and less sensation
Hi bro, Can share ctcs for raw?��
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Re: Simply cannot feel much of anything through a condom. Anyone else?

I heard from a ML that eating plenty of seafood or shellfish helps to get hard faster and cum. Any bros have any experience?
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Old 24-11-2020, 02:27 AM
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Re: Simply cannot feel much of anything through a condom. Anyone else?

Eat more oyster... Prawn and go watson or online buy some zinc and men vitamin
This is supplement..

Second, go some physical healing like Juagen ( i can reco 1 for u. She quite good). But locate at bukit batok...

Third.. Whenever u free do some workout like squat. Deadlift... Those workout can improve ur testosterone level high so ur performance will getting better
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Old 27-11-2020, 09:33 AM
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Re: Simply cannot feel much of anything through a condom. Anyone else?

Bro i am like u but not so bad, i still can cum ok with 001

003, 002 also caaaaaan lah if the girl is hot

Dun think there is any cure to this, u just have to find girls willing to give u bbbj and cim
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Old 02-12-2020, 01:17 PM
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Re: Simply cannot feel much of anything through a condom. Anyone else?

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When I was young I was a chronic masturbator and didn't lose my virginity until 23. I think that this may have permanently decreased the sensation in my penis. I'm now in my mid-30s and continue to battle desensitization. It's an ongoing problem.

I've tried literally dozens of condoms from .001 to small to large to form-fitting to textured to latex to polyurethane to using lube inside and out, etc.

Nothing works. 90% of the time I lose my erection or I pump away until I'm bored or tired because I just can't feel much of anything. The other 10% of the time with a condom is ok, but this only happens when the situation is optimal (haven't had sex in ages, not nervous, very horny, using my favorite condoms and not some generic Durex).

In fact, depending on the girl, I might not even feel much of anything even when going raw because different girls have different textures inside and different levels of tightness. Ones that are smooth and tight do little for me.

And to prove its not a psychological thing, I can't finish or stay hard with any condom even when I use a pocket pussy that normally always gets me off (and quickly) when I'm not using a condom. I'm in the comfort of my own home - but I just. Can't. Feel. Hardly. Anything.

And like real pussies, not all pocket pussies can get me off. Ones with a more "natural" texture and tight ones don't do anything for me, despite them getting lots of great reviews. I have to go for ones with a more aggressive texture and larger cavity.

So... does anyone else have this problem? I don't use my hands to masturbate anymore - haven't for a decade. I only use a pocket pussy with lube, but I seem to have a permanent loss of sensation.

Anyone else in the same boat and how did you deal with it?
How old are u and have u had a check of your testosterone levels?
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Old 05-12-2020, 09:15 PM
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Re: Simply cannot feel much of anything through a condom. Anyone else?

These bigger brands can fit anybody, regardless of size, since the ring at the base is not any bigger. Put a drop of ... Can't feel anything. Try a thinner, higher ... More than anything, a drop of lube in the tip will make it feel more natural
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Originally Posted by Shaun9990 View Post
Eat more oyster... Prawn and go watson or online buy some zinc and men vitamin
This is supplement..

Second, go some physical healing like Juagen ( i can reco 1 for u. She quite good). But locate at bukit batok...

Third.. Whenever u free do some workout like squat. Deadlift... Those workout can improve ur testosterone level high so ur performance will getting better
Can recommend contact for juagen?
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