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Old 24-07-2022, 10:01 AM
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Re: advice for relationship

[QUOTE=Gotta agree relationship are pain for ppl that has no fate like me haha. Atm jus trying to improve my social skills so get better in mre better interactions.[/QUOTE]

Before you commit into a "relationshit" (aka fucking with feelings). You have to factor in these:

Willing to go and visit her family during CNY, other PH and wkends
Put up with their tantrums
Put her over yr friends
Put up with her friends and family that MIGHT not like you

Anyway, good luck hunting. Just fuck and forget. Get into a serious relationshit when you're older.
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Old 24-07-2022, 10:27 AM
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Wah this is 1 very good skill which i lack haha.. nt so thick skin
can use part time job to meet people also then less awkward feeling
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Before you commit into a "relationshit" (aka fucking with feelings). You have to factor in these:

Willing to go and visit her family during CNY, other PH and wkends
Put up with their tantrums
Put her over yr friends
Put up with her friends and family that MIGHT not like you

Anyway, good luck hunting. Just fuck and forget. Get into a serious relationshit when you're older.
Actually i wouldnt mind that if shes the right 1. I thought we all here are considered "old" le haha.
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Old 24-07-2022, 04:33 PM
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Actually i wouldnt mind that if shes the right 1. I thought we all here are considered "old" le haha.
You mentioned you uni Y2 right? Still young
well, if you still wanna take the blue pill. despite my advice. Go ahead by all means
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Re: advice for relationship

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Before you commit into a "relationshit" (aka fucking with feelings). You have to factor in these:

Willing to go and visit her family during CNY, other PH and wkends
Put up with their tantrums
Put her over yr friends
Put up with her friends and family that MIGHT not like you

Anyway, good luck hunting. Just fuck and forget. Get into a serious relationshit when you're older.
somethings i agree with ah relationship not just i like u u like me ah if so easy why so many divorce. need careful consideration. before u think of relationship you can take proper care of yourself first? if u can, then can u take the responsibility to take care of another person ? not saying its all on you, but u need to be ready should something like retrench happen etc.

so i agree with fuck and forget FL
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Yeah trying to meet mre ppl outside of sch
you can do it ! another point to note, when meeting new people open your mind listen and learn new things learn from their experiences.
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you can do it ! another point to note, when meeting new people open your mind listen and learn new things learn from their experiences.
this is very true, dont be stubborn and correct other people hastily. you end up offending people. be more accepting to others
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Re: advice for relationship

Im an old guy at 56 but I have almost always had a girlfriend or wife in my life. I think my generation knew a lot more about dating and women then you young ones do today. Today I am happily married to my 36 yo Singaporean wife who treats me like a king and I have freedom to fuck anyone I want. I can share some insights for what its worth on how to attract women.

1. Actually like women. Not just for their pussy. Like being around the feminine energy. Its hugely atttractive.

2. Have confidence. Get close to the line of arrogance but not over. Be decisive and take charge, but not in an offensive way. For example when asking a girl out dont say "Lets hang out sometime". Say "Can I take you out to dinner Friday night?"

3. Be the provider. Pay for dinner. I know its cool to split the bill these days and what not but women respond to a Provider man.

4. Accept rejection. Its not about you. Its just their preference. Doesnt mean anything.

5. Learn to Flirt. Make them laugh.

6. Make them feel safe. Actually this is the most important. Women approach dates with their guard up. Talk about pets (if you have them) or kids (nieces and nephews or whatever). Anyone who loves animals and children is safe.

7. Play it cool. Show interest but not desperation. If the first date goes well, ask for another one at the end of the evening. Make it a specific request. A good second date is a common interest you discovered on the first date. A comedy show or concert or museum or walk on the beach. Whatever she said she likes to do. It shows you listened and cared.

There are many more but this is a start..
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Im an old guy at 56 but I have almost always had a girlfriend or wife in my life. I think my generation knew a lot more about dating and women then you young ones do today. Today I am happily married to my 36 yo Singaporean wife who treats me like a king and I have freedom to fuck anyone I want. I can share some insights for what its worth on how to attract women.

1. Actually like women. Not just for their pussy. Like being around the feminine energy. Its hugely atttractive.

2. Have confidence. Get close to the line of arrogance but not over. Be decisive and take charge, but not in an offensive way. For example when asking a girl out dont say "Lets hang out sometime". Say "Can I take you out to dinner Friday night?"

3. Be the provider. Pay for dinner. I know its cool to split the bill these days and what not but women respond to a Provider man.

4. Accept rejection. Its not about you. Its just their preference. Doesnt mean anything.

5. Learn to Flirt. Make them laugh.

6. Make them feel safe. Actually this is the most important. Women approach dates with their guard up. Talk about pets (if you have them) or kids (nieces and nephews or whatever). Anyone who loves animals and children is safe.

7. Play it cool. Show interest but not desperation. If the first date goes well, ask for another one at the end of the evening. Make it a specific request. A good second date is a common interest you discovered on the first date. A comedy show or concert or museum or walk on the beach. Whatever she said she likes to do. It shows you listened and cared.

There are many more but this is a start..
Thank you sir for the write-up! I guess i could work on point 2+5

Maybe i dun make the first move usually due to the fear of failure. In the past i used to have a pretty hot friend where she has alot of suitors in sch. She most of the time is pretty open to voice out her inner opinions to us (her clique) like e.g. (this dude is cmi and abit too shameless to confess to me). I think bcuz of that i dun really straight up approach pretty girls haha
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Re: advice for relationship

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Im an old guy at 56 but I have almost always had a girlfriend or wife in my life. I think my generation knew a lot more about dating and women then you young ones do today. Today I am happily married to my 36 yo Singaporean wife who treats me like a king and I have freedom to fuck anyone I want. I can share some insights for what its worth on how to attract women.

1. Actually like women. Not just for their pussy. Like being around the feminine energy. Its hugely atttractive.

2. Have confidence. Get close to the line of arrogance but not over. Be decisive and take charge, but not in an offensive way. For example when asking a girl out dont say "Lets hang out sometime". Say "Can I take you out to dinner Friday night?"

3. Be the provider. Pay for dinner. I know its cool to split the bill these days and what not but women respond to a Provider man.

4. Accept rejection. Its not about you. Its just their preference. Doesnt mean anything.

5. Learn to Flirt. Make them laugh.

6. Make them feel safe. Actually this is the most important. Women approach dates with their guard up. Talk about pets (if you have them) or kids (nieces and nephews or whatever). Anyone who loves animals and children is safe.

7. Play it cool. Show interest but not desperation. If the first date goes well, ask for another one at the end of the evening. Make it a specific request. A good second date is a common interest you discovered on the first date. A comedy show or concert or museum or walk on the beach. Whatever she said she likes to do. It shows you listened and cared.

There are many more but this is a start..
i strongly agree to this pointers made.
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Thank you sir for the write-up! I guess i could work on point 2+5

Maybe i dun make the first move usually due to the fear of failure. In the past i used to have a pretty hot friend where she has alot of suitors in sch. She most of the time is pretty open to voice out her inner opinions to us (her clique) like e.g. (this dude is cmi and abit too shameless to confess to me). I think bcuz of that i dun really straight up approach pretty girls haha
2+5 already quite powerful.
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Oh ya recently reconnected with another bro. He shared that it is not so wise to date someone that is from yr class/cca based from prior to his ex.( Like need to help do her homework, teaching her the stuff that she missed while prof covered during online lectures while she scroll on shopee/taobao, carry her for projects and assignments, deal with her emotional stress from schwork and also meeting her other needs, eventually kinda drained him out and quarrelled alot. ) what are your thoughts?
sorry for late reply. dating is not the problem. this describes simping when you let the female counterpart step all over you and make use of you.

date whoever. but stand firm on what you need to do and accomplish first for yourself.
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sorry for late reply. dating is not the problem. this describes simping when you let the female counterpart step all over you and make use of you.

date whoever. but stand firm on what you need to do and accomplish first for yourself.
yea i simp-ed and got played. so i agree with us man standing up for ourselves. bitches who are not good to us can F-off
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sorry for late reply. dating is not the problem. this describes simping when you let the female counterpart step all over you and make use of you.

date whoever. but stand firm on what you need to do and accomplish first for yourself.
this is so true. dont simp it only makes you worse.
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this is so true. dont simp it only makes you worse.
once you start simping the girl impression of you is you weak, once you are perceived as weak, they step over you, once they step over you they lose interst, tada the vicious cycle
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