Help i need some advice

[sheeshkebab]

Hi ppl,

I know i may sound lame but i have not been able to sleep lately.

Last monday, i went for a massage for the first time. The contact was given from a fellow forumster.

We did not complete the session as halfway i was scared...

she did a bbj and after that put on a condom n fl..halway i stopped...

I know the best is to avoid this stuf...now i worry if i might get hiv..im so damn depress and feels tat im dirty...everynight when i go home n c my parents i wanna cry..i m scared that i might die due to hiv...i understand that i shud wait for at least 3 months before i go for any testion..but 3 months is a long wait...can someone guide me pls?

[verytimid]

we would die someday somehow, u shouldn't be afraid of dying, instead u should begin thinking what would u do if u survived unscathed.

From your posts u made me think u r rather young of age. Take this as a lesson and do not repeat it if u r afraid this is a mistake

[VS88]

From the way u react, u seems to be of a young age and never did this be4. If U r scared of contracting HIV, then u should not start in the 1st place. If i am not wrong the FL u found is LILI (saw u flooding her thread with question). Haiz since wat done cannot be undone, wait a few weeks to see whether u develop any itchiness. Wish u gd luck.

A word of advice: If u want it and scared of it then ALWAYS wear ur helmet.

[Royster79]

Dun worry.. Since u did put on condom, the chances of getting HIV is very very low.. If u r really scared, just do a test after 6 mths.. it should ease ur mind. Always remember : wanna cheong, dun scared.. wanna scared, dun cheong..

[AfA_hmor]

you are thinking too much. if fucking prostitutes makes you uncomfortable, then don't fuck them. it's highly unlikely that you would get HIV, but BBBJ can expose you to various STDs. if you are worried about your health, go and see a doctor if you notice any symptoms of STD. You can get a HIV test after 1 month of being exposed.

[Maine1983]

Young boy, ann la...dont think you are so lucky.

After 3 days you should feel ok now right, peeing also no pain right? Then it should be ok. To be sure go for HIV check 6mths later.

Since you are so Kia Si, I believed you have put CD .. so you play safe. I always BBBj for decades and still fine so far. Hope this will put you mind at ease.

Btw I went for HIV test last mth and result negative. You should go for one before your marriage in later stage of life. Take care.

[peanut123]

if you got a BBBJ, and you used a condom for sex, then you are probably safe, as long as the condom did not break or slip. When you checked your condom, was it still intact ? If so, no problemo.

Relax and chill man. Here are some advice :

1. if scared and imagination run wild, then dun cheong anymore.
2. if wanna cheong, always use condom for both oral sex and FJ.
3. if oral sex was a bit rough ( can feel the WL's teeth on ur dick ), change to a new condom before FJ.
4. don't use 2 condoms at the same time. they break more easily.
5. everytime u bang, always check tat ur condom is still intact and unbroken at regular intervals. if you are like the average young guy, you probably come pretty quick anyway so u probably only need to check ur condom once or twice.
6. Go DSC for checkup regularly.
7. If wanna cheong and still scared, stick to HJs, covered BJs and groping boobs. It's also very fun and very safe :-)
8. Stick to legal joints. FLs are for the brave of heart ( which I think you are not ), although I admit that some of them are VERY VERY HOT and VERY tempting.
9. If you don't want to be put into a position where you're tempted to bang a WL but you just want a HJ, then go to TNs which offers only HJs ( I can name a few, and you can find them in the Health Center forum ). That way, you get your HJ and release ur lust, fondle and suck a pair of nice boobs, and yet won't end up banging her since FJ is not provided.

[fee3fow]

TS pls know that 人生无常。 When it is your time to go, nobody can prevent it. You see how some people crossing the road when green man is on and some drunk driver just knock them down? Alot of things in life is not up to us to control. You can spent the whole of your life worrying about when your time will come or you can treasure every moment and live life to the fullness before your time comes

[simple2kee]

TS, u sounded young. take this as a lesson and do not repeat it again.

do agree with bro peanut123. take a closer look at his advice.

[hole_me]

HIV initial will develop itchiness one??

[iammilflover]

TS definitely a young man. Pls listen to Bro Peanut123, he has gave a very good advise.

Take care young man.

[keef]

I was like you too at first. you got to loosen up dude. but always think of the consequences of your actions and whether you can afford to bear them.