depressing problem ED

[Totally]

Hi all, only recently i have encountered a totally depressing problem which i believed it to be ED (erectile dysfunction). I have been losing sleep and i get depressed whenever i think about it.
This happened only recently when i started sleeping around with different girls. Firstly, i admit that i have a gf for 3 years plus and as the saying goes, its better to play everything before you settle down.

1st girl i slept with, everything was smooth until the 3rd time, i had difficulty getting an erection even with hjs and bjs. so i thought maybe i was bored of the girl then i decided to move on.

2nd girl i got on my bed, a syt of 18. pretty looking girl, some syt whom i always wanted to bed. did the frenching and stripping, had a lil hardon. then when i was done with her shorts and undies, i lost the hardon. she gave me a hj and it got hard for a min then i tried putting on the condom and it shrank again then i tried DIYing for a good 5 mins and i cant get a hardon at all...I CANNOT BELIEVE THIS IS HAPPENING AS SHES GOOD LOOKING, NICE LONG LEGS, FAIR & SPOTLESS COMPLEXION AND HAS A B CUP. I mean these are the least criteria for a guy to get a hardon. i was super stressed and i did not know wad to do.. so i called off the whole thing and apologised. bros you do not know how ashamed i was man.

so after 1 week of resting and no wanking, i decided to try on another girl.

Then came the 3rd girl, shes younger then me too, those typical OL long hair lass type you see in raffles place. Managed to get her on my bed, went through the usual stuff of frenching and taking off her clothes and hjs and it could not stand up at all, i even tried DIYing for a few mins!! feeling totally depressed i did the same stuff calling the thing off and apologised AGAIN!

I really hope anybody whom have encountered this problem can help me
FYI before i started to sleep around i have no problem doing it at all.
And you guys might not believe me but i'm only 24 this year...

[flowerpot]

maybe u can try bedding a man....

maybe u change your taste liao...

[Big Sexy]

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VIAGRA Official Site - Erectile Dysfunction (ED) Medication - About ED


What is erectile dysfunction?
ED is when a man has problems getting or maintaining an erection long enough for sex. It happens when not enough blood flows to the penis.

ED isn’t the same for all men. Some men aren’t able to get an erection at all. Others can get one, but it’s not hard enough for sex. And others get a hard erection but lose it before or during sex.

ED is a medical condition. So in most cases, erections will not improve without treatment.

A common issue
ED is more common than you might think. More than half of all men over 40 have some difficulty getting and maintaining an erection. The fact is, guys at any age can experience ED.

Treatment works
If you think you might have ED, there’s something you can do. Ask your doctor about treatment. Most men with ED can significantly improve their erections. And better erections can mean better sex.
Why erectile dysfunction (ED) happens
ED can be caused by things like stress or fatigue. But a lot of times, ED is not something that you can control. That’s because it’s often due to a physical problem that affects your blood flow.

Usually when a man is sexually aroused:

1. The brain sends an impulse telling the arteries in the penis to widen.
2. As a result, more blood flows to the penis.
3. When this happens, the penis expands and hardens. This causes an erection.

When a man has ED, the nerves or blood vessels in the penis don’t work properly. This prevents blood from flowing to the penis. And that can prevent an erection.


Causes of ED
ED is often related to other health issues that can affect the flow of blood to the penis. No matter what the cause, treatment is usually effective.

Originally Posted by Totally

Hi all, only recently i have encountered a totally depressing problem which i believed it to be ED (erectile dysfunction).
I really hope anybody whom have encountered this problem can help me

[Highjoys]

Originally Posted by Totally

Hi all, only recently i have encountered a totally depressing problem which i believed it to be ED (erectile dysfunction). I have been losing sleep and i get depressed whenever i think about it.
This happened only recently when i started sleeping around with different girls. Firstly, i admit that i have a gf for 3 years plus and as the saying goes, its better to play everything before you settle down.

1st girl i slept with, everything was smooth until the 3rd time, i had difficulty getting an erection even with hjs and bjs. so i thought maybe i was bored of the girl then i decided to move on.

2nd girl i got on my bed, a syt of 18. pretty looking girl, some syt whom i always wanted to bed. did the frenching and stripping, had a lil hardon. then when i was done with her shorts and undies, i lost the hardon. she gave me a hj and it got hard for a min then i tried putting on the condom and it shrank again then i tried DIYing for a good 5 mins and i cant get a hardon at all...I CANNOT BELIEVE THIS IS HAPPENING AS SHES GOOD LOOKING, NICE LONG LEGS, FAIR & SPOTLESS COMPLEXION AND HAS A B CUP. I mean these are the least criteria for a guy to get a hardon. i was super stressed and i did not know wad to do.. so i called off the whole thing and apologised. bros you do not know how ashamed i was man.

so after 1 week of resting and no wanking, i decided to try on another girl.

Then came the 3rd girl, shes younger then me too, those typical OL long hair lass type you see in raffles place. Managed to get her on my bed, went through the usual stuff of frenching and taking off her clothes and hjs and it could not stand up at all, i even tried DIYing for a few mins!! feeling totally depressed i did the same stuff calling the thing off and apologised AGAIN!

I really hope anybody whom have encountered this problem can help me
FYI before i started to sleep around i have no problem doing it at all.
And you guys might not believe me but i'm only 24 this year...

Hi Bro I do have similar problem to Maybe we could share experiences and solutions. I have been trying Cialis and Andro Cream. Both work ok for me

[Xgenre]

Originally Posted by Totally

Hi all, only recently i have encountered a totally depressing problem which i believed it to be ED (erectile dysfunction). I have been losing sleep and i get depressed whenever i think about it.

You said you are 24. Normally, a guy's sexual peak is at abt 25. What's your height and weight? Any health problems like obesity, blood pressure or not? My advice is to see a doctor. Our comments here are not medically proven. A lot of the pills available here are illegal, though some works.

I think you may need long term treatment like pills. If long term treatment, better to eat proper medicine like Cialis and Viagra. At least long term side effects are well researched.

On a personal note, next time you bed a girl, you call me along. If you misfire, at least I'm there as your backup to satisfy the girls. All so young and attractive, why waste hor? You also got to be responsilbe to them mah. You can't song doesn't mean they dun wish to be satisfied right?

[Highjoys]

Originally Posted by Xgenre

You said you are 24. Normally, a guy's sexual peak is at abt 25. What's your height and weight? Any health problems like obesity, blood pressure or not? My advice is to see a doctor. Our comments here are not medically proven. A lot of the pills available here are illegal, though some works.

I think you may need long term treatment like pills. If long term treatment, better to eat proper medicine like Cialis and Viagra. At least long term side effects are well researched.

On a personal note, next time you bed a girl, you call me along. If you misfire, at least I'm there as your backup to satisfy the girls. All so young and attractive, why waste hor? You also got to be responsilbe to them mah. You can't song doesn't mean they dun wish to be satisfied right?

Wah!!! A "cannon backup"

[wanderer23]

My opinion of your ED is that nothing wrong with you physically but it's all the mind. You wanted desperately to perform with this gorgeous girl but this could have a negative effect instead.

Just relax and enjoy the feeling rather than getting stressed up it will only become worse if you keep thinking this way. During the foreplay or intercourse concentrate on your own pleasurable feelings rather than thinking whether what you do will please her or not.

Last but not least you may want to see a counsellor/doctor if you really cannot get it up but i still feel it's all in your head only. Cheers

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by Totally

Hi all, only recently i have encountered a totally depressing problem which i believed it to be ED (erectile dysfunction).

Are you viky's husband?

[Totally]

flowerpot,
maybe u can try bedding a man....

maybe u change your taste liao...

Dont think i can do that, i still prefer tits and pussies to dicks man.

big sexy,

looking from the info you provided i do think i might have ED... i've read about it too ..

highjoys,

yes please we should, pmed you.


Xgenre,

nah i'm all good, no HBP, 170 60, i'm not the skinny type as i do alot of running and gyming. bro its not as easy as you think to bed a girl of certain looks. takes quite alot of aspects and time to do so. if you want i can give you a tip or two to the game.well it'll be way easier if you drive a posh car and live in a posh place = )

Wanderer23,

I tried relaxing and have a clear mind on the 3rd girl, it did not work at all. I seriously wish this was all in the mind. its a really depressing problem at my age..

and sammyboyfor,

I'm not viky's husband lol

don't worry, i have the same problem as you...
in fact i know alot of people like that...

it's all mental, if you can get morning erections and do it with your normal partner, you do not have ED.

What you need is "love" and comfort before doing it.
If are not comfortable with the new partner, it's not easy...

Sub conciously u are nervous, because you failed before, and u dun wanna fail again, then adrenaline forces blood to your head, instead of penis.

Solution 1) Build rapport with the girl, a few more dates, and some drinks might help.

Solution 2) Take medication. This is the easy way out, tried and tested by me. :P
no need time to build a "relationship"

For flings, it's best to take Cialis instead of viagra, it has a longer half-life. You don't want your date seeing you pop a pill before the deed... Cialis works for more than a day, so you can predict and take, rather than take just before hand.

[XP Tongkat Ali]

It could also be testosterone deficiency.

Are you a heavy smoker, obese ,stress or long term unhealthy lifestyle (eg. Frequent drinking, insufficient rest, late night entertainment?

You can have a high sex drive but unable to produce an erection possibly through diabetes, high blood pressure or heavy smoking. Low testosterone will affect both your erection and libido.

Erections depend on healthy blood flow to the penis. During an erection, vessels in the penis become engorged with blood to produce an erection. Many diseases that affect the blood vessels can interfere with blood flow to the penis. Atherosclerosis (hardening of the arteries) and high blood pressure (hypertension) can cause abnormal blood flow to the penis and can affect a man's ability to have an erection.

Many things can cause testosterone levels to be low, such as problems with the pituitary gland, which regulates the production of the sex hormone; thyroid abnormalities; liver problems; and abnormalities within the testes themselves. So if you're unable to get an adequate erection, it's possible that something is causing trouble with your body's testosterone production.
Secondly, all bodily functions, erections depend on signals from the brain that say when to start and when to stop. The inability to get an erection can sometimes result from a problem with the nerves carrying signals from the brain to the penis.

Just maintain a relax mind, concentrate and enjoy the process. Getting tense up or desperately wanted to perform might have a negative impact.

It not recommended taking any Viagra or Cialis at such a young age unless it a serious ED problem.

Probably a better alternative is to try XP Tongkat Ali Supreme first. Natural herbal is always better than synthetic

But still the best option and advice is to consult your personal doctor.

[Totally]

[QUOTE=XP Tongkat Ali;3223795]It could also be testosterone deficiency.

Are you a heavy smoker, obese ,stress or long term unhealthy lifestyle (eg. Frequent drinking, insufficient rest, late night entertainment?

You can have a high sex drive but unable to produce an erection possibly through diabetes, high blood pressure or heavy smoking. Low testosterone will affect both your erection and libido.

i seriously hope i dont have testosterone deficiency. talking about smoking , i've kicked the habit for 2 years already. i dont drink frequently but occasionally and i'm nowhere near obese. but i do admit i lack sufficient rest and i always hang out till wee hours of the morning. I've done a test on HBP and diabetes and tested negative.

Guys any idea where can i get legal cialis to try out? i mean it wont harm much to give it a shot i guess..

[wholesaleN]

Try Something herbal and healthy with no side effects

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[mldue]

for starters, losing sleep and stressing over the problem is not going to help you. it could just be the moment thing, or performance anxiety.

have a change in lifestyle, sleep early, take a relaxed trip, including different exercise routines, etc. if all else fail, then include medication, but don't give up on natural drug-free options in lifestyle.