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Old 22-06-2019, 06:21 PM
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Bro TS,

Thanks for sharing.
For other bros who are in doubt, fyi, there are many hubbies who are really open mind. I have my own experience, my friend asked me to have 3some with his own wife.
Some couples are also into swinging lifestyle.

I totally believe them when they say their relationship getting stronger.
You have a very good friend, wish can be your friend too, hehe.
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Re: Allowing wife to have another.

Possible. I have a friend who loves her husband because the husband is super rich. Balonglong don't need to work family got lots of $$ to throw.

But my friend said her husband has a so so fuck, a small tool and low sex drive. As such, she fucked a lot of big tool dude and enjoy great sex. She is still there as she need her husband to pay off her LJ credit card bills. Win win. She need almost 1 cock every 1-2 days. Strange but that is the truth.... Lol
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Re: Allowing wife to have another.

Bro, in my opinion you are in doubt. If you are thinking on forgiveness meaning you mind about your wife having another man. Look like you can have a few options. Accept it, Demand equal rights, Swing (together) or probably move on. This is just my feel , life is limited don't have to make your wife enjoy life when you are the only one feeling miserable. Marriage is 2 person being happy together. when you look back decades later,is it worth it? Ultimately it's choices. Take care.
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Re: Allowing wife to have another.

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Re: Allowing wife to have another.


Stop living in denial
What the fuck is "believed in forgiveness"
Don't lie to yourself


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Re: Allowing wife to have another.

I think the idea of having many men than 1 man is safer mentally. Just like man having many women compared to 1 mistress. Quite likely for that 1, may develop real love and ends relationship

Trust me, all these cock and bull stories about forgiveness is to comfort oneself. If suay, relationships may end and it is a matter of time.
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Stop living in denial
What the fuck is "believed in forgiveness"
Don't lie to yourself


Bro you just say it right.
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Re: Allowing wife to have another.

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I decided to make the first move and we had a heart to heart talk. I told her that from now on, I am not going to hold her back from seeing or even sleeping with another man if she wants to. That I should not be the reason stopping her from being who she is.

Eversince that talk, our love has been more stronger than it ever was. We are more affectionate towards each other. Communication and trust comes easy.

Call me stupid but I think I just found a way to save this still wonderful marriage and at the same time keeping my other half happy. If we are happy, nothing else really matters i guess.

Often than not, mainstream social expectations and thinking moulded us to perceive what is right what is wrong. Sometimes, we have to take a step back, see things from another view and decide what works for us and what doesn't. All it takes is some effort to understand your other half.

Yes, my wife has another and yes we are happier than ever before...

I hope by sharing my experience, it might help any other other bros/sis here that might be going through similar situation in their marriages/relationships and feeling helpless. It might not be the end of the road just yet.
Personally I fully agreed with your opinion in loving your wife to give her the best that you can afford or accept. There is no right or wrong as long as both you and your wife trusted each others to live your life style bro. Cheer and keep it up.
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Re: Allowing wife to have another.

Hmm..
maybe true love does exist after all?!
Or unconditional love?

Just wondering if your ‘love’ for ur wife will still continue when she got pregnant with another race’s and when she gave u herpes/STD/HIV

Anyway... it’s ur life, who the fuck are we to judge ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
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Re: Allowing wife to have another.

I hope to know your wife and be her next lover
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Re: Allowing wife to have another.

Bro, I presume you don't have kids.

The moment your wife gets pregnant, how will you handle the question of the paternity (of the child)? The paternity test can be done only when the baby is born.
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Re: Allowing wife to have another.

i am scratching head open relationship sided to your wife but you stay faithful at your end? Hmmm is this love? or is just your personal way of keeping her by your side cause you are afraid of losing her?

Not sure like one bro mention what if she became preg??
I can only imagine such relationship happening when the husband is of the lower tier and the wife is of higher tier in term of financially capability and status.

Yes i have heard of open relationship of couple as in both play outside or like some posted somewhere playing together. But TS yours is more like most mention you are CUCK by your wife.
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Re: Allowing wife to have another.

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I decided to make the first move and we had a heart to heart talk. I told her that from now on, I am not going to hold her back from seeing or even sleeping with another man if she wants to.
u just like hubby of Coco from Long Long spa at amk
he is eat soft rice type, allow Coco to fucking other man as he like to know her
enjoy sex with other man.
more important she give him your $$$
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Nothing really sexual here. I'm new here and just finding an avenue to let it out from my heart and I think this would be a proper place. Long post ahead...

we have been married for a few years now and when I first got to know my wife back then, I knew she loved to date with different guys and she was fairly active sexually and enjoyed it. Regardless, I decided to continue seeing her. We were young back then and discovering so I thought it was pretty normal for an individual to meet different people.

As time goes by, our relationship bloomed and we finally got married. However, along the years, while she still treats me well, she was always caught by me for seeing other men behind my back. (Don't get me wrong. Our marriage is a happy one and we enjoy each other alot in bed and we don't fight at all throughout our marriage) And each time, i refused to give up on her as I believed in forgiveness and knew that marriage is not an easy thing and I only want her to be happy.

Instead of going in a rage, I will always reason with her nicely and asked her why she does it. Somehow, each time, I will also confront her lovers nicely. In otherwords, Gentlemen talk. Often, I will just tell them that they were caught and the whole thing was wrong and telling them to stop the affair. I still wonder why I just cannot get angry over it. It was always more of an upset and dissappointment. Life became really hard for me and I struggled mentally as do any husband knowing of their partner's affair.

moving forward another few years, she was caught again with another man and as always I asked her nicely why it happened. Then something strucked me this time and i begin to question myself trying to find a logical reason. Could my wife be just someone who personally needs to have different men even before I knew her? Hence, why she sees different men in her single days? If so, then I could be the reason that is stopping her to be well.... herself - who she is. And that, does not sit well with me as i am preventing her from being happy. In otherwords, I am being unfair.

So, I started to try and change my mindset. Of how I perceive the whole matter. I decided that I married the love of my life, therefore, the best thing I can be for my wife is to at least accept her for who she is and accept that she is not perfect and she is as human as any of us. That, which makes her... perfect.


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I would have lost it at her calmed myself down and proceeded on to reason with her so that I can also go find 2-3 legal fuck buddies.. That is if u guys have kids and Divorce is a messy issue if u have kids... Keep the marriage and love if u do still love each other but also can find love in others

I am one person who is capable of truly loving 2 women at the same time..basically 2 wives... Just Have not tried 3..and sometimes wish my wife can accept a second wife.. Damn

If no kids why keep the marriage just be together if u still love each other without being binded by marriage which under women's charter guys lose gao gao
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Re: Allowing wife to have another.

Fuck another woman in your bed and see how this will works. If she joins in then just be happy it works out for you. If she gets angry then continue to do it and wait for her to calmly forgive you like u did for her.
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