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Do you know its easier for a woman to cheat? Considering that a woman can come multiple times than a man can scientifically? You wrote: which man dont lust for a younger sweet woman, let me ask you back then, which woman don't lust after a younger man who is more fun to hang out with? Lack of self discipline and lack of self control is a character flaw. Nothing to do with being a man or woman. Opportunities are everywhere and anywhere. If a woman can be faithful then shame on the man.
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Now if it’s only an issue of self control and discipline, it would beg the question of why so many men who’s professional achievements can only result from exceptional self discipline and control in their lives fall so easily to temptation? Even when they have everything to lose, and the rational part of their brains know it? Why are men so lacking in self discipline and control when it comes to sex compared to women? |
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At the core of all our existence, are sexual energy. Creation and destruction. The wanting, the denial, the absence and the orgy of it. All stories starts with it. Opposite will be peace and the world will cease. |
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_______________________________ dailymail.co.uk Think men are the unfaithful sex? A study shows WOMEN are the biggest cheats - they're just better at lying about it Maureen Rice 11-13 minutes Think men are the unfaithful sex? A study shows WOMEN are the biggest cheats - they're just better at lying about it Updated: 00:10 AEST, 8 September 2009 Are men or women more likely to cheat? While men have always had a worse reputation for being unfaithful, recent studies show that women are catching up fast - but we are a lot more likely to lie about it, and a lot less likely to get caught. Simply put, it seems that women are better at having affairs than men. The news that Farrah Fawcett had a secret affair for 11 years without telling a soul is a classic example of the way a woman cheats: discreetly, in secret, and while carrying on with the rest of her life as normal. Cheating housewife: Eva Longoria played a woman who had an affair with her gardener, played by Jesse Metcalfe, in Desperate Housewives It has been met with hot denials by Ryan O'Neal, but - and I'm sorry to break it to you this way, Ryan - you'd be the last to know. According to Dr David Holmes, a psychologist at Manchester Metropolitan University, women are having more affairs than ever - recent studies say the figure is around 20 per cent for men and a bit over 15 per cent for women - but they behave very differently from men when they cheat. 'The biggest difference is that women are much better at keeping their affairs secret,' he says. 'If you look at the studies into paternity, even conservative figures show that between eight and 15 per cent of children haven't been fathered by the man who thinks he's the biological parent.' That's a lot of women keeping a lot of secrets. One woman I know - let's call her Juliet - has been married to Adrian for ten years, and having an affair with Mark for the past two. She has told me and her sister - otherwise, she says, she's '100 per cent certain' that nobody else knows. 'I won't allow Mark to call me on my mobile or email me, ever. Mobiles and email leave a trail. I insist we talk on our office landlines, and when we meet for drinks or dinner, we pay with cash. 'We work in the same field, so meeting for lunch doesn't look suspicious. If we meet in the evening, I tell Adrian I'm with my sister, and meet Mark a few miles away, where we won't bump into anyone.' Secret affair: Ryan O'Neal knew nothing of partner Farrah Fawcett's alleged infidelity
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Lazy to reply to these pyscho-pathetic women, they can reply or do whatever they want. Bec of listening to these pyscho-women, several guys will straightaway jump into the sea. |
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Being mutual and not on an emotional level.
The way this thread began was more about absolving himself of the responsibilities of his bad behaviour by stating men are wired differently. However it certainly doesnt justify our own infidelities. I did not say women dont cheat. I said it is a character flaw which is probable whether your gender is a male or female. Well, it is difficult to process this topic any further as guilty information would only be available to people who are accountable and responsible.
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Imo when it comes to fidelity, it's not about which gender are more susceptible to be tempted. So long as there's sufficient unmet desires (not just sex), the person will be tempted to cheat when the opportunity knocks on the door and the seducer can fill the void. The view that man are wired more to succumb is flawed, and is more of the historical gender inequality that led to male infidelity being viewed as common. Because woman in the past are either not allowed to voice their opinion or no one cares about what they say, hence the male species take the cheating route more boldly with less fear of being judged, since the female voices are muted. Even though gender equality has evolved tremendously since then, the long history of inequality has molded both gender to continue view infidelity is more common in guys and if a girl commit adultery, it seems uncommon or wrong, as traditionally it does not happen as much, but not because female are less tempted, rather, it is due to inequality that prohibited them to be bolder back then. Have commented in a recent thread "7 year itch" that I have my own experiences with married ladies cheated on spouses. So I definitely do NOT think male infidelity is due to how we are wired vs the ladies. An unsatisfied person will be tempted, just that man will be more likely to execute it because history makes such acts deem more "normal" when a guy does it. Girls will have more reservations due to society perception when a girl is found cheating. It also means that when a girl does it, she has broken free of ancient mindset and is willing to seek happiness of her own, to hell with traditional thinking. That, is very brave and sexy imo. Right or wrong? Let's not go there.. The key difference between how man and women are wired, is largely on how we are attracted to the opposite sex. Man are visual creatures. Women are emotional animals. To tempt a man, a woman usually just needs to show her cleavage, lots of legs and looks hot to him. To seduce a woman requires way more craft and efforts..if any guys feel that just having 6 packs and a great body will work then he is in for a rude shock. My 2 cents of opinion. Happy Sunday folks. |
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One of my life goals is to conquer my wayward mind.
I am learning how my past experiences affect my emotions and behavior in adulthood. For example, the media I frequently consume can affect the way I look at women. I am learning to look at women objectively, instead of subjectively. If I look at women objectively I feel less desire towards them. |
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For example I notice a woman with nice, shapely butt or breasts. I become aware of myself noticing the woman. I ask myself why do I notice her butt and breasts? Then I think of the butt and breasts objectively. The butt is smelly and shit comes out of the anus. The breasts are merely lumps of flesh and fat. Why am I attracted to them? Is it my childhood, my life experiences, or the media (porn) that lead me to notice woman in this way? I am learning to look at a woman's body parts objectively and I believe it will change my perception of women. |
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first thing is to stop coming back to this commercial sex forum?
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