Re: Married men here whose wife reject you for sex
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Originally Posted by koites
Does anyone here have this issue? We've been married for about 12 years. But each time I initiate sex, she would reject me. The common excuses are like tired, no mood, prefers to have sex in the day and don't feel like it.
I mean how the hell do we have sex in the day when i have to work? If it's only on weekends, that means we can only have sex once a week??? What a sad situation.
What do you guys do about it? I don't mean going outside. I mean with your wife. I keep telling her; woe be to the men who is married but keeps going to his right hand.
Bro... I in the same situation. I'm 41 and married for 9 yrs. Have not make out with my wife for last 15 months already. Always have to initiate and always rejected. Up to a point that I also don't bother to ask. Worst thing is she check my phone from time to time and see my browsing history have xhamster porn vids and ask me why I watch porn. Im like Hello... Im in my prime and deprived of SEX. Throughout the 9 years maybe we have sex total 20 times. I ever 2 years no sex at all with my wife. She say she "XIN LENG KAN" type. Our parents always asked me why we got no children yet after married for so many years... I wanted to tell them ''NO SEX HOW TO HAVE KIDS''... Haha but to save face on this problem only can say my sperm inactive and cannot have kids. KNN... If I go Fxxk outside, dunno will have how many children already.
Bro... I in the same situation. I'm 41 and married for 9 yrs. Have not make out with my wife for last 15 months already. Always have to initiate and always rejected. Up to a point that I also don't bother to ask. Worst thing is she check my phone from time to time and see my browsing history have xhamster porn vids and ask me why I watch porn. Im like Hello... Im in my prime and deprived of SEX. Throughout the 9 years maybe we have sex total 20 times. I ever 2 years no sex at all with my wife. She say she "XIN LENG KAN" type. Our parents always asked me why we got no children yet after married for so many years... I wanted to tell them ''NO SEX HOW TO HAVE KIDS''... Haha but to save face on this problem only can say my sperm inactive and cannot have kids. KNN... If I go Fxxk outside, dunno will have how many children already.
Bro... I in the same situation. I'm 41 and married for 9 yrs. Have not make out with my wife for last 15 months already. Always have to initiate and always rejected. Up to a point that I also don't bother to ask. Worst thing is she check my phone from time to time and see my browsing history have xhamster porn vids and ask me why I watch porn. Im like Hello... Im in my prime and deprived of SEX. Throughout the 9 years maybe we have sex total 20 times. I ever 2 years no sex at all with my wife. She say she "XIN LENG KAN" type. Our parents always asked me why we got no children yet after married for so many years... I wanted to tell them ''NO SEX HOW TO HAVE KIDS''... Haha but to save face on this problem only can say my sperm inactive and cannot have kids. KNN... If I go Fxxk outside, dunno will have how many children already.
I have more but not much more. Maybe 3 time’s a month. But worse. She keeps getting UTI. And I keep telling her to drink more water. She just refused. Each time she recovers from UTI, sex will be painful for her for another 2 months. She just told me today she had another bout of UTI. HOW????
The whole situation is so fucked up I don’t know what to say. It’s not that I’m not romantic. I told her I find her sexy. I told her to sleep in the nude with me. She told me to find other hobbies and focus less on sex. WTF
Re: Married men here whose wife reject you for sex
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Originally Posted by HeLovesMe
Agreed with Rickey’s valid points.
TS, Maybe you can try telling your wife with LSD that it is her responsibility to release you regularly to keep chronic illnesses at bay. Otherwise she will regret seeing you battling with health issues for life.
My guy was on medication for years due to his chronic health issues. Think he didn’t get regular sex from his frigid wife after his marriage to relieve his daily stress coming from his work. But I am not sure about it cos I don’t know the whole story. He was supposed to tell me everything as promised but haven’t executed his promise
Re: Married men here whose wife reject you for sex
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Originally Posted by IamGood
U may envy but i once had a gf who wants sex every night and one shot not enuf, until i also sian!
It's too late now ...you shd hv passed her over to us many bros here who are suffering from our LSD wives and let us enjoy her on yr behalf since you are so sian of her ...hehe...anymore such kantow, do let us bros here know k ...we will help u ...SIC
Re: Married men here whose wife reject you for sex
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Originally Posted by maomao34
Bro... I in the same situation. I'm 41 and married for 9 yrs. Have not make out with my wife for last 15 months already. Always have to initiate and always rejected. Up to a point that I also don't bother to ask. Worst thing is she check my phone from time to time and see my browsing history have xhamster porn vids and ask me why I watch porn. Im like Hello... Im in my prime and deprived of SEX. Throughout the 9 years maybe we have sex total 20 times. I ever 2 years no sex at all with my wife. She say she "XIN LENG KAN" type. Our parents always asked me why we got no children yet after married for so many years... I wanted to tell them ''NO SEX HOW TO HAVE KIDS''... Haha but to save face on this problem only can say my sperm inactive and cannot have kids. KNN... If I go Fxxk outside, dunno will have how many children already.
Bro, you only live once.. if this is so painful for you and it doesnt work out.. just move on .. sometimes hanging on is very painful for both parties. if she dont understand you and your needs then there is no relationship here. Either you divorce or eat out and get caught then divorce. Ultimately you will know what you want and do the best for yourself
Re: Married men here whose wife reject you for sex
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Originally Posted by maomao34
Bro... I in the same situation. I'm 41 and married for 9 yrs. Have not make out with my wife for last 15 months already. Always have to initiate and always rejected. Up to a point that I also don't bother to ask. Worst thing is she check my phone from time to time and see my browsing history have xhamster porn vids and ask me why I watch porn. Im like Hello... Im in my prime and deprived of SEX. Throughout the 9 years maybe we have sex total 20 times. I ever 2 years no sex at all with my wife.
Wah read your story also feel for you, sounds incredibly painful. Any particular reasons why you're still together with her? When you two were dating, did sex occur? What's xin leng ken ah
hard especially with kids.
but I make a rule to have sex at least once a week.
Also I buy vibrators and sexy clothes for her. Before that hard to reach orgasm, but now use vibrator almost guaranteed. Wife enjoy it so more willing to have sex.
We bought a vibrator during our honeymoon used once or twice then nvr use le. Recently , she threw it away coz long time nvr use... how?
Re: Married men here whose wife reject you for sex
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Originally Posted by itsmyfault
We bought a vibrator during our honeymoon used once or twice then nvr use le. Recently , she threw it away coz long time nvr use... how?
maybe never shiok? can try av wand, better if she use herself while sitting on top.
Last time i got try durex intense orgasmic gel too, not bad, don't put too much or else very hot. Now use av wand no need gel liao.
Make sure she in good mood then go try new toys, like after a nice dinner with surprise gift etc.
Before trying all these, hard to reach climax for her so she didn't like sex, lucky found ways for her to enjoy, I still need to request for sex lah but she more willingly to accept.