sexless male in 30s looking for fwb

[mimai82]

hi all

i'm a total newbie in this. might get flamed but here goes..

im Chinese, in my mid 30s, married but have a sex-less relationship with my wife. she is not fond of it, and ever since we started the relationship years ago, we've had sex less than 10 times? none in the last year. but still we managed to produce a coming 1 year old baby.. geesh. might go sexless for the foreseeable future.

so here i am, virgin the past year, and i am longing to have a sexual relationship with a lady whom might be in a similar situation. hoping to be great friends with benefit but yet at the same time respect each other's family priorities.

im (very) tall, dark and (quite?) handsome.. slim to athletic build. interests are basketball, running, sports, video games.. pretty normal. if there is anyone interested please let me know by pm. if any guy is empathise with me and wanna be friends just to chat about these stuff and share tips, feel free to comment or msg me too!

that's all.. thanks for reading

[Ghostimage]

I pity you, by right sex is a good way to bridge a relationship / marriage. See what happen when wife doesn't give. Nature of life, I think women must understand this part of man. It takes 2 hands to clap

[FreebiezWanker]

Ur wife dun like sex or dun like sex with u?

Can intro? Try convert her to a vixen....

[happykrabi]

Originally Posted by mimai82

hi all

i'm a total newbie in this. might get flamed but here goes..

im Chinese, in my mid 30s, married but have a sex-less relationship with my wife. she is not fond of it, and ever since we started the relationship years ago, we've had sex less than 10 times? none in the last year. but still we managed to produce a coming 1 year old baby.. geesh. might go sexless for the foreseeable future.

so here i am, virgin the past year, and i am longing to have a sexual relationship with a lady whom might be in a similar situation. hoping to be great friends with benefit but yet at the same time respect each other's family priorities.

im (very) tall, dark and (quite?) handsome.. slim to athletic build. interests are basketball, running, sports, video games.. pretty normal. if there is anyone interested please let me know by pm. if any guy is empathise with me and wanna be friends just to chat about these stuff and share tips, feel free to comment or msg me too!

that's all.. thanks for reading

poor guy...

[mimai82]

Originally Posted by Ghostimage

I pity you, by right sex is a good way to bridge a relationship / marriage. See what happen when wife doesn't give. Nature of life, I think women must understand this part of man. It takes 2 hands to clap

I agree bro. Just not working for me..

Originally Posted by happykrabi

poor guy...

Thanks for emphasising..

Originally Posted by FreebiezWanker

Ur wife dun like sex or dun like sex with u?

Can intro? Try convert her to a vixen....

She has low sex drive. And now shaky relationship with her plus she's always tires so sex is hard to approach. She's totally not into these things haha typical super conservative girl

[charlestan666]

do something like going for short trip, improve your foreplay etc.

I always spend time to massage my girls with oil/lotion.It always works for me. They always get aroused and ends up with a wonderful sex.

[ZanShen]

Interesting!

[shitty_pants]

aiyo.

go see doctor and work it out.

or just go for FL, transactional... no need commitment

[mimai82]

Originally Posted by charlestan666

do something like going for short trip, improve your foreplay etc.

I always spend time to massage my girls with oil/lotion.It always works for me. They always get aroused and ends up with a wonderful sex.

thanks for the advise! i always massage her, just without oil/lotion haha. no luck so far. will see how it goes

[Cryptor]

im in the same situation as you bro, wife turns sexless after marriage. machiam kena scam hahahaha

[ponybabe]

Originally Posted by Cryptor

im in the same situation as you bro, wife turns sexless after marriage. machiam kena scam hahahaha

I don’t understand as a female though - then her needs how..?

[Cryptor]

Originally Posted by ponybabe

I don’t understand as a female though - then her needs how..?

Everytime initiate the response is no mood, tired etc etc. I also cannot understand, maybe she lost her vagina along with childbirth

[charlestan666]

Originally Posted by mimai82

thanks for the advise! i always massage her, just without oil/lotion haha. no luck so far. will see how it goes

U need to massage with oil or lotion. It is different compared to dry massage. Trust me. Give it a try. I used my scented lotion for massages. So far no lady can resists yet. AND I am just a regular Uncle.

[babe886967]

Me different leh, my laogong sexdrive ⏬

[3someIsAwesome]

Originally Posted by babe886967

Me different leh, my laogong sexdrive ⏬

I've very high sex drive. Wanna have coffee together sometime?