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Just use ur gut feeling will do. Love is based on feelings, either u have or dun have and feelings can be nurtured to love.
If not nurtured properly, then break off. Is this something very important until need to make many considerations? |
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At least you know her deep in person after 4 years of R/S. How well you know this girl? You will only find out the real her likely only after you are together for a while. Plus I can tell you for a fact all women will change, first after marriage, second after birth, third menopause. I think looks are secondary if you are looking for wife. Too pretty a lot of problems also.... and trust me you will eventually still get bored of her. |
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Thanks bro, upz u as well.
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The trouble is that men marry women thinking that they will never change, and women marry men thinking that they can change them.
My recommendation: A Jack Daniels, A Hendrick Gin and a Bourbon at the beach at midnight, and self-reflection under coconut tree.. |
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Up my pts and i will up yours as well(Power 5 and above pls) Target: 18000 point hit... will be part time now only in point exchange... Thank you for the points Please pm me for second or third round first before u up my points cos worried not able to return cheers |
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Not fun without u Leh.... what make u drop by? How everything going on?
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Up my pts and i will up yours as well(Power 5 and above pls) Target: 18000 point hit... will be part time now only in point exchange... Thank you for the points Please pm me for second or third round first before u up my points cos worried not able to return cheers |
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I m good,pm u
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Thanks guys and gals for all the advice here.
My biggest point is my current gf's lack of sex drive. She is just not very interested in it. I think sexual compatibility is very important in a relationship, and I don't know why I took 4 years before really thinking very hard about it. Perhaps I was in the comfort zone during these 4 years and I thought she would change for the better (sexually) after marriage. We discussed deeply about this before, about my wishes and how I hope we can try to mutually satisfy one another. However, the more I think about it, the more I conclude that things won't improve. This is one of life's most difficult decisions |
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So never think they will change.. I see too many only change from bad to worst... Think properly before u continue the relationship or if u want to change... I really dun want see people suffer after marriage and in the end divorce... |
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think the heart wants what the heart wants. probably you gonna go for 2nd girl and dump your current. its the truth.
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Life's most difficult decision is when you ignore the sexual incompatibility. Marry her. Have 2 kids. Then find the lack of sex a big issue. You love your kids. A divorce means you lose care and control of them, you wont see your kids. But you aren't getting any sex. It frustrates you. You go for commercial sex. Once, twice. Frequent. You lose that exclusivity with your wife. You slow talk her for it. She does not respond. The quarrels come in. You can't bond with her bec there is just no sex. You are stuck in a sexless and loveless marriage. Do you walk out? Where are you going to stay after you divorce? How do you unravel 10 years of marriage to start all over again? This then, is the most difficult decision in life. There is a thread here where hundreds of bros who have walked this path come to share in wechat. Make a wrong move. Join them. |
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U might be unaware of her biggest worries. So during weekend, ask her out for a simple meal in a quiet environment. Let her know that you care for her and allow her to naturally pour her worries to you. Then u can offer advices. Dun straightaway ask for sex. Find the right timing and ambience. |
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TS, as desperate as you are, asking a group of strangers to comment on a decision that will affect rest of your life.......it just isn't right. no one is the wiser here to tell you otherwise. Even confiding to a close friend is not the solution.
I have encounter too many situation where close friend come to seek advice on decision that may change their life....never did i give a direct answer. I only break down the pro and cons, the possible result, risk and etc to the seeker. it all lies in your final decision to choose the path. choose wisely young skywalker....... |
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After reading what you type.
i guess you already have an answer. |
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