Issues to consider when looking for a guy

[Xgenre]

Originally Posted by blohsg

Xgenre : your thread might become the place where they flock to you to do PI for their respective spouses and what not ... it's going to be bz

That's not what I want. Please do take extra care when you meet friends from online forums.

[blohsg]

I know ... scary when the people you meet are actually some guy or girl you know ...

well ... heavy shoulder you have to deal with these issues then ... not the most enviable task really.

[Agentoso]

TS,

Great thread.

[HungerAwaken]

First of all, really good one bro!

It gives lots of info for both bro and sis!
For myself, I only know that FB = free bonk. (what a loser!)
I thought it's f**k buddy.

Anyway, some points I would like to participate here are,
I think what so ever the FB stands for, when it comes to a relationship, I think respect is really important.
I might b sound like an old guy, but believe me, I'm just mid 20.
I don't know how that FB relationships goes as I never had a FB b4, but as an outsider, if a sis don't respect to the bro, bros tell me u wanna proceed?
The same goes vice vasa.
I think we shouldnt go to next step without knowing each other to certain level.
For me, formal meeting up in a public place should be a must.
Have some drinks, eat some food, chat some interest.
After about an hour, u should know each other enough to decide whether to go to next level.
But don't go to next level yet, just go back home think about it carefully for atleast one night.
If u think it's good to go, then go for it.
In this way both party will not get into trouble.
After considering for a night and u don't feel the chemistry, just b a simple friend!
So if u go this way, everything will b smooth right? No need to b rude to the other!

May b I'm too conservative (that's what my gf used to say and may b coz of that she left me!) damn! I feel like a looser!

Anyway bros, thanks for reading my opinion.
Hope it will not irritate to anybody!

Good luck everybody!

[gamaju258]

too bad.... i always chicken out... cos very nervy before meeting up.

[bloopz]

great tips bro. i've no intention to get an FB but thought i should give this thread a bump to share the tips. cheers!

[orchideous]

bump for a great guy. with many thanks.

[applerice]

Hi for the girls who started their thread to look for FB/companionship with long listing of requirement. And one requirement that really IMPRESSED ME ...the guy must have at least xx numbers of post wahseh.!! Guys that can write better means better guys????

I can never understand why and how people can start a thread like that.

Girls are you trying to figure out;

1. how the sex world out there ????
2. how guys like to bed with you???? Or
3. with some reason you really have not got enough sex?
4. You are just too bored?? So you need strangers help????

Am really curious how many of you really find what you want here...Be it guys or girls, yes this is a forum to release stress or whatever fun for.....so for guys seeing someone posting for FB..wowhoo!!! if I am lucky I can bed with u..how many bros here would say no to free bonk session?? If you are young and pretty...I will definitely bonk....

On the other hand how many guys would accept their partner who has this interesting history?

If you find your FB/companion that you think, have you ever tried to imagine on the other side of the screen he may actually discuss or share your detail with them..how would you know? and may be exchanging their experience with the others...you know nuts abt it and even so what so big deal nothing gain or lose??? And you thought you are in your heavenly FB life....

For those you think you found...best of luck...for those that you would like to try...pls think deep why do you want to do so??? If you really into meeting ur FB....hey galssss....please don’t regret for something that you are warned.....

[Lickinggood]

Thank you all bros and sis who share their knowledge.
This thread is really useful for newbie like me. I did not dwell too much when I was using another nick for about 2 weeks in here. After reading This thread I hv decided to cover my tracks.. Been stupid enuf to give out real email..hehe.
Hope the damage is under control... For now.

[zacarie]

Originally Posted by Xgenre

Recently a lady PM me and we met for lunch. Her husband is a samster and she found out about what he does here. She told me to send out a message that married or attached people should reconsider finding FLs as it hurts the wife or gf. I told her that this is an adult forum and we don't preach morales here. Guys, there is a saying in the army. Do anything you want but don't get caught. If you can't stop engaging in SBF related activities, at least try to cover your tracks and not get caught. Ignorance can be bliss to your loved ones.

Decided to write in this thread as the PMs resulted from this thread.

so true. if you're married.. cover ur tracks. cause it would hurt the other party if they find out. it's not easy to just have a fuck buddy and no emotions involve. for myself it's alot about respect, trust and chemistry with the other person. if i dont have any of tt then dont see a point in carrying on. cause at the end of the day. i still wanna have a
good conversation that may not involve sex.. all the best to all out there.

this is a really good thread.. cheers! =)

[gergerGND]

I like your advise!

[1021115458]

This is a great thread for both guys and gals.

Everyone wants to enjoy the activities but there are so much factors worth considering when it comes to security.

Thanks!

[bleuwings]

Originally Posted by zacarie

so true. if you're married.. cover ur tracks. cause it would hurt the other party if they find out. it's not easy to just have a fuck buddy and no emotions involve. for myself it's alot about respect, trust and chemistry with the other person. if i dont have any of tt then dont see a point in carrying on. cause at the end of the day. i still wanna have a
good conversation that may not involve sex.. all the best to all out there.

this is a really good thread.. cheers! =)

I dun mind meeting up for a chat over a nice dinner....

[Xgenre]

7. Dangers of Facebook.

In 2 minds about writing this but finally decided to share my views. Hopefully we can learn to protect ourselves more and no one uses this information to harm people. The privacy of most of our facebook accounts are set to 'friends of friends'. Do you actually know what that means? You have a list of friends in facebook. All I need to befriend one of your friends and I can get to see your photos. So if I want to follow you in Facebook or view your photos, all I need to do is to be accepted as a friend of your friend. I don't even have to apply to be your friend. Scary right? Especially so when the guys in your friends list tend to accept friendship requests without making sure they actually know you. Try if you don't believe. Set privacy settings to 'friends only'.

I chatted with a girl who just joined SBF in our chatroom recently. She wants to be a fl to clear off her university study loans. She uses her real email to share uncensored full facial photos to prospective clients. I was warning her of the dangers of her actions. Seeing that she wasn't very interested of the dangers, I did a test. I managed to find her real FB account. Her settings are set to 'Friends Only'. She thinks that's enough to reject people she doesn't want to be on her FB list. A simple search on her name reveals her bf's name. I requested to be a friend of her bf's FB account. The guys in your FB account are really the weakest link. So I was able to access photos of them on holiday, his views of the world, where he works and where she works. I told her I am now her bf's friend and that kind of freaked her out. Plus she doesn't know how to get her bf to delete me without the bf asking me who I am. Lastly, I told her I meant her no harm. If I can find out so much about you, others can too. I then deleted myself from her bf's FB and he's none the wiser and she can see that I am no longer his friend.

Are you Facebook safe if you are looking for friends from SBF?

8. SBF common sense

Recently a girl who attends gatherings decided to be silly and posted a photo of her face as her avatar. Those who attended the gatherings obviously recognised her. Someone copied her avatar (photo of herself) and set up a spoof SBF nick, claiming to have similar stats as the girl in question. Is the girl silly? I think so. Please do not be surprised if there are people out to sabotage you.

Just look at this thread. A guy who had free sex for a month with a Thai girl, regrets and now wants to sabotage the girl. Such idiots exist here but at least he is obvious about it. The scariest people are those who can hang out and chill with you and then sabotage you behind your back. Girls, are you sure the girls, you hang out with, won't tell secrets about you to the guys in this forum? http://sammyboyforum.info/showthr...417&highlight= Be safe while searching. Thanks for reading what this uncle has to say.

[Xgenre]

To the ladies reading this thread (regardless of whether you are looking for FB or not), please be warned of this thread. http://sammyboyforum.info/showthread.php?t=253574 Drugs that harm ladies exist and are being openly peddled with ridiculously stupid excuses. So will any of the ladies reading this thread be meeting any of those guys in the future? See the importance of checking through a guy's history of posts before meeting anyone now? You might end up getting drugged. Please, please be careful.