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Re: Frequency of Sex of Married Couple
i know how many married bros feel ....
my case no difference. before having our only child, very frequent. after birth, can count with fingers on 1 hand ... and my child is already a teenager now. sad.... |
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Fate has it, she married someone I knew during my NSF days (and later lost contact). Her husband & me ended back in the same bunk every year for 10 years. He would show us pictures of his pretty wife and tell us how he tahan during courtship because she was so pure...well he had a lot of fun one night when we when to this joint and this pretty viet gal gave him his virgin bbj+cim The problem is a good religious girl will become a good religious woman, that is if you want someone like that for your wife..... |
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Well when 1 is in this forum and reading all those unknown fact or fiction stories one can't help but feel crappy how come one wife not like that.
One thing i notice alot of our local married couple once the one child arrive sex become mono if more than one child sex become non existence. Especially on the women part they will give you reason like working, tired, kids around worst still they don't even want to doll up anymore not to mention kinky sex life. Even some of that portion of them do it is just going thru motion letting the partner release so he won't go outsource. Such mentality will not change it is like a gene past down generation to generation if you happen to have a daughter that is. Have you ever notice another pattern this women normally before marriage everything also will try, can try, try it once..... Than once living together after marriage it will be not comfortable, don't like it, Abnormal..... LMAO Well many faces same no need to even ask so the thing here is either you outsource or you just go to the toilet put on your ear piece watch a few porn flick and whack your KKJ hard.
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The problem is why we let ourselves get into this situation then?
The stigma of being labelled a lecherous man isn't it? A lot of the brothers will say ‘welcome to the club’, ‘use your hands’ or ‘outsource’ whenever someone complains of no sex or very sex after marriage or child birth. To be a little extreme, in legal terms, withholding sex from your husband is deem to be unreasonable behaviour. It’s solid grounds for divorcing your wife, if you don't believe me, go ask any lawyer. Not to offend anyone, I am actually very curious to ask if anyone had told your wife before marrying her that sex is a must, otherwise marriage would be a no-go. After marriage, if the wife withhold sex and the man have to outsource and if caught, will be deem a lecherous man. After which you must seek forgiveness (from the wife) or let the wife divorce you on adultery grounds. Outsource just provide short term relief, and we must do it and hide our trails. Actually all this, what for? I admit, I still look for short term relief only when being apart from wife, but no matter what, martial sex frequency must at a comfortable level for both, else the marriage is not healthy. Last edited by iluvbreast; 20-09-2019 at 02:02 PM. Reason: missing comma |
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If after marriage sex is a must, what is sex before marriage then? Some ladies feel that giving sex before marriage is like giving a prize to the BF. He is so appreciative and tender and she feels cherished. After marriage, it becomes an unreasonable chore. Anytime the guy wants to, she has to provide sex and suck cock. Most of our ladies are well educated. Why do you think they will feel happy being treated like a sex slave? I tried to understand the changes more. Many of the ladies who post selfies on IG, facebook like to feel good about their looks and bodies. Some of these ladies still continue posting selfies about their looks and bodies after marriage or child birth. I see it as a desire to continue to feel confident and good about their looks and bodies. Many hope their friends will give them a like or type a compliment to boost their own confidence. These ladies also tend to suffer more after from lowered self esteem after having kids. They know better than anyone their looks and bodies are not as good as before. There is a hunger for emotional satisfaction that we guys need to learn how to fulfil before they will be willing to fulfil our physical satisfaction. So for the rest of our lives, as old as the lady grows, don't stop trying to hold her hand in public, look into her eyes and french kiss her during missionary, doing naughty things that you do when both of you were still bf-gf (i use my elbow to 'accidentally' touch the side of her boobs when we are holding hands in public), look into her eyes and smile, calling her up to ask if she has eaten for if not, you will buy food home, praising her in front of her family friends and colleagues. Basically fulfil her need for emotional reassurance.... for life.
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Ya lor, so sad. But now I know I'm not alone. Many bros here also in similar situation. Band of Sex Deprived Brothers here. Lol
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What self development blah blah blah, all excuses from them. I felt ashamed of myself for a long time. Not anymore, let us all just enjoy life, find satisfactions in any ways we like, no need to answer to anyone 😀 |
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I be a little kaypoh, splitting of assets is limited to marital assets only, the main factors to determine how much each party gets, are marriage duration and his or her contribution towards the marriage (note it is not just the asset). Naturally the longer the marriage the more difficult to determine what are marital assets. For children, it is determine by who was the primary care give during marriage, and also who can provide better care after the divorce. The custody is always shared unless you choose to give it up, what most people fight are days with the kid, it is call the Child’s Care and Control. I cannot speak for everyone, but my experience told me the divorce was quite fair. My ex gotten 20% share of our place, since I paid most of the cost. I don’t have to pay her maintenance because she continued to work after our marriage (alimony is only written in US laws, in SG only maintenance), and she draws about the same pay as me. We share child maintenance (I’m a bastard if I don’t pay for my child’s expenses), and kid is with me most of the time. I did not fight for the cash we set aside and some minor things but all in all I would say it ended quite ok, for me at least. Of course my ex wanted everything, since she deemed it to be my fault. The thing I learnt from my lawyer was that Woman’s Charter was written back then when most families in Singapore was single income (most women are housewives, caring for the children full time). Imagine there is no Woman’s Charter how can the housewives survive with her children? My lawyer said these days, judgements have changed because women are generally working after marriage there is no real need for maintenance. I think you misunderstand, I did not say I want my wife (including my ex when we were married) to be my sex slave. I would say that if the woman wants to treat sex like a treat for BF, better don’t get marry her. I married for the second time 2 years after my divorce. Before marrying my wife and me went for counselling, we discussed about sex. I told the counselor I really enjoy sex with my wife(to be), my wife also said the same. The counselor was happy for us and said don’t withhold sex and never use it as a means of controlling your spouse, i.e, like a treat. We must communicate and remember a marriage without a healthy sex life is not normal. Emotional reassurance I do agree, sometimes it is just as simple as not have children at home and both of us just spent the whole day doing nothing together. |
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Suddenly i remembered Mrs Ow....
If only all the wives treat their hubby like Mrs Ow, perfect! |
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Does not mean it's necessarily hard life or resentment if sex is withheld. Still can have happy family life and all that, just one part that is missing - that can be easily outsourced. As long as the wife gives hubby enough space and time for opportunities And hubby know the limits , don't start affairs and don't bring diseases home. Happy hubby, happy wife, happy family
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Thank you for your well wishes.
I didn't post to boast about my relationship with my wife now, rather I think we should not be subjected to this situation. I had a hard time rebuilding my life after my divorce. I had to get a resale flat because of HDB ruling. The divorce was a big drain on my savings too (not to mention my ex took most of our cash before the divorce), luckily my parents were working but I still had a child to feed. I was lucky my company had a overseas stint which nobody wanted to go (conditions were shit), I was able to ask for 120% overseas allowance + accommodations (later found out, everyone stayed free since it was at site). I left my child with my parents, rented out the resale flat I just bought and spent the next 18 months living in a 20 foot container, cooking my own meals everyday and saving as much as I could. I was given tickets to return every 6 months for 1 weekend which I pleaded with my company to en-cash my airfare. They were kind, knowing my situation. After I return, I stayed in the living room of my parent's flat for 6 months since the tenancy agreement of my place was 24 months. Looking back now it was very difficult period, these days I am just thankful my child is reasonably close to his stepmother. I at least have harmony at home while I continue to rebuild my life. |
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Indeed a good counselor well in many cases sex have become a treat from many wives. some example
"I tried you want to do it tonight do all the chores?" "My have bad day in office cheer me" etc. example of reason use. Not saying all but majoirty use that. And if you ever say a marriage counselor say "Marriage without a healthy sex life is not normal" You will get shot with this "THan you go have sex with the counselor lo" LMAO Quote:
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I posted about my friend and his very pretty virgin wife (whom I used to date), according to him (over a lot of beer), his wife was not really into sex. It's not her fault isn't it, some people are just like that, but I think it is wrong of her to keep it from her husband before they marry. It was to procreate (to her), since they have 2 children then don't really need to fuck anymore. After 2nd child, it was like 1-2 times yearly. Don't even think about outsourcing, the wife condemns the men whenever she came across these news and warns her husband with divorce, it's so dirty. So what do the wife do? Spend her Friday nights doing yoga, Saturday nights playing mahjong. Are they a happy family, yes, at least to an outsider, every weekends bring the children to enrichment classes, or go extended family gathering. Still it is your own choice. |
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