[poorpixie]

A big thank you to everybody. Although this is an odd place to seek help.
But I really don't have any friends . I gave my all to the family since the day I got married. So to see such responses here makes my eyes well up.
Now all i want is to move on with my life without disrupting anyone's.
I want to end the marriage with peace. I have no intention to hurt anyone from this.
So there is no need to go through any "evidence" .
I dont want to put my daughter through any kind of hurt. She adores and loves her dad alot. And that it shall be.
All I want now is to be able to get a hdb flat using my name.
If im having a freelance job, does that means i will have to contribute cpf to myself in order to get loan from hdb?
I really cannot afford a lawyer. .
And so going this solo.
We can also sign the dirvorce papers in peace right?
Can we do that immediately? How do I go about it?
Also on his part, if we divorced and my name is withdrawn.. does he need to pay for anything at all? I dont want to cause him any financial stress.
Really. All i want to is move on with my life.
Please help. Anyone in similar circumstances?
Big thanks.