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Old 18-10-2020, 10:18 PM
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Originally Posted by alleycat View Post
Thanks bro.

My closest friends of 20 over years have advised me to file divorce. They know my wife as well.

Thing is, is it worth filing divorce because there is zero intimacy, when everything else is going on fine?
In your earlier post you said you already 41. Divorce just for lack of intimacy, what's the point? If you were 10 years younger, i'd say go ahead, divorce and find another one. Now you 41, divorce and take couple more years to find your intimate one, then how many more years you have left before you also reach the age with slow drive and also gradually lose interest in intimacy?

After all, everything else going fine, as you say. So just subcon the "intimacy" to the specialists outside This is just a small part of your daily life. The larger part is still going well for you. Save your money and don't lose it unnecessarily to divorce lawyers and your wife.