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Originally Posted by poorpixie
Just wondering.
If Brenda is currently living in an apartment she rented by herself and lives there for 7 years on her own and then poof, a boyfriend came along.
They lived together for 2 years and then she decided that the boyfriend should also share the cost of living together.
However to her disappointment, he said he earned $500 lesser than her so she should continue to be responsible for the living expenses as per if she didnt found him.
Eventually, he agreed to only pay for the electricity bills.
And they lived together for another year and she became to feel emotionally imbalanced as she saw him spending on himself for unnecessary luxuries she had to stopped herself in order to foot the rent and bills.
Share your opinions guys.
Just a thought.
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Sincerely think that you should just move on. No point to be with someone so calculative..... Now already like that. Married liao leh expect to quarrel due to finance matter every day. For wat?
My thought on finance in a relationship.
Both should not be calulative on who pays for small items, whoever can afford or have money in their wallets should pay.
All major purchase need to be discussed up front between both party. Example car or house. Who will pay for the installment/petrol/insurance etc.
Should 1 party not be able to make payments for his/her responsibility for a certain period. The other party should offer to help without asking.