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Originally Posted by Pictionary
This is a very long winded advice which doesn't solve the problem and makes the problems more worse. Cherry's problem already manifested until overblown.
The person who replied is not disabled, no mental illness, not hearing impaired, not austistic, no heart problem, no spine problem, totally nothing. Just based on what he witnessed. These disabled have their difficulties and they have some way of coping with their lifes. TS does not have any of the above disabilities, it's like comparing TS with the disabled and indirectly saying that TS is useless and should just go and die better. I do not have any mental illness so even those mental illness who do things also very wrong also i cannot comment. Only the mental ppl can comment the mental ppl.
TS is abled, getting older, have children, no job, no savings. Have debt, not sure. Maybe he is very emotionally drained by his divorce, his wife maybe asking for alimony. His children are very young, so they are not matured to know what is money and do not know whether his father got a job or not. He has too many problems now, so do not dwell into the problems, it makes himself dispirited and mpre unmotivated. Problems will come as days goes by, just be mentally prepared and tackle the problem step by step as time goes by. Now the immediate action is to get money to live with his everyday life, put aside other problems, later then settle.
Is there a park nearby, is there anyone playing sepak takraw, badmintion, basketball? Go have a look.
If u no time to read, just read the below conclusion. Do not dwell on the problems, bec it makes oneself very unmotivated to do things, and u need to go to ktv or whatever to destress.
Do not try to make sense of what other ppls' advices, their lifestyle are different, write is very beautiful but deep inside is full of rubbish and not helping at all.
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Since when have I implied TS "
should go and die better"? My very first line is "
you should never kill yourself".
To avoid misunderstandings, let me clarify that part again. If retired uncles, ex-convicts, disabled and/or autistic people can get a job in Singapore, what is TS's excuse for not working?
And really? "
Doesn't solve the problem and makes the problem worse"? TS has no money, 2 kids to raise, and an ex-wife who gave up on him. My advice was for him to:
1. Not kill himself.
2. Man up and be a dad to his children.
3. Get a job.
How does having an income not solve at least some of his problems? And how is this "
rubbish", when you have pretty much given the same advice for TS to get a job?
You want more constructive advice for TS? Ok here are some ideas. MacDonald's is always hiring. Drop the ego, go for a walk-in interview, get a job, get paid. After work, instead of logging into SBF to look for ways to satisfy his dick (which TS is still doing btw), he should log onto JobsDB. Send out around 10 CVs every day. Manage his salary expectations. Be prepared to start from scratch. Never give up. He will get a proper job sooner or later.
Also, if TS has the basic IT skills to come to a sex forum to post sob stories, he would have the skills to get an entry-level data entry job. He may not even need to work in MacDonald's.
Finally, whenever TS is feeling horny, instead of visiting some China whore, he should take his $100 in his left hand, and PCC with his right hand. After he is done, he will still have $100 to spend on his kids.
Do you think this is enough advice for TS?
You reap what you sow dude. TS fucked his own life up. What's worse is that through his irresponsibility, he has also fucked up the lives of his ex-wife and his 2 kids. If TS is my friend, I would slap his face and tell him to wake up his bloody idea. Which, in a sense, is what I'm doing here.
Tough love bro. You fuck up, you buck up. But hey I get that you're trying to be a nice guy to TS here. So in truth, I don't really have any issues with you.
Have a great Sunday ahead dude.