[alan1999]

Hi
My wife is a Vietnamese and we are together for 10 years. She bỏrn me a son. We are current living in Saigon.

My advice to you is go understand her and their culture. It's very different from Singaporean point of view. Go understand her family.

After that then judge yourself is this the type of happiness or live you want..
North and South Vietnamese are very different ás well.

Good Luck