[ShittyAss]

Originally Posted by chaoslord

To Bro 1KnightinBKK: This is really excellent advice.

I don't go to TDs, I go KTV's and have been in a r/s with a VietBu for the last 3 yrs. Their motivation is simple - it's money.

I did the cardinal sin of recently showing jealousy on the day she was going back to HCM. The TLDR version was that she fly me aeroplane on the day I was supposed to send her off as she had an overnight session a customer. It's the last day and she had many customers asking her out that night.

She was very apologetic to me but she made it clear that her first and foremost priority was money. She did not mean to hurt my feelings and thought she was doing me a favour (since i see her on avg 3 times a week) by not needing to trouble me to send her off to the airport. From my perspective, another guy screwed my girl which is totally normal in her line of work but this time it was at the expense of myself.

The truth of the matter is that we treat these girls better than how they treat us. Given the number of bros showering them attention, its impossible for them to be truly fair to everyone whilst trying to be professional. The way I see it is that you are "first-among-equals" and honestly that is the best one can hope for with WL's as long as they ply this trade. She reached out and tried to apologise to you, which in a fit of anger you rejected it and understandably so since she stood you up. From what I see, she did not realize her actions would lead to you being this upset. She probably thought that she can earn $$$ during her last day and try to spend some time with you after work at 2 am.

In short - keep things fun and casual. Expecting too much from these WL's is going to lead to heartache. If the feelings are mutual, just go along with the ride without any expectation that you might have from a bf/gf perspective.

Firstly, she isn't your girl.. she is for anyone who can afford her to piak her..

Secondly, u did piak her also...

Thirdly, it's all about $. Emotionally attachment yes for sure. But still it's S-11.

Lastly, don't waste too much time. Such TLC is fun and self slapping as well.

I have been there and done that as well... I know how u feel exactly.

U will wake up one day. Don't be too late.