[EtherC]

TS you likely hurt her feelings with that statement. We use that statement as a cautionary adage but you actually confronted her with it. No one likes to be reminded as a heartless sex worker, she’s human afterall. There are also 有情有义 people in the trade but these are a minority. The more important question is why are you moaning here? If you truly love her , shouldn’t you be in China chasing after her? Lust & love need to be differentiated , sometimes they do not go hand in hand.