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Old 31-05-2021, 12:02 AM
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Re: Care & Control

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Originally Posted by raefear View Post
Thanks for sharing. Fully understand its an uphill battle, so just hoping to hear from anyone with 1st or 2nd hand experience. So far 1 Bro got it and wasn't due to the wife giving up.

In my case, she's working and has longer hours than me. Taken care by my parents from 11am. Hardly back in time for dinner together.

Kids bedtime starts at 10 and usually end up being asleep only at 11pm +.
The question u have to seriously ask yourself; are u prepared to fight in court for care and control? Be mentally prepared that this will exhaust your savings. At the end of the day, no one win except the lawyers. Alternatively, if u will to leverage your savings to give your kids a better life ? I have a friend that spent more than $100k but ended up out of court settlement. Think carefully..