How to know if a normal sg lady is interested in you?
 

The lady is a non-working local lady.

Trying to read her signs but is hard to guage.

Like to seek advice from bros here.

Thanks.

Re: How to know if a normal sg lady is interested in you?
 

Forget about signs . if you're interested in getting to know her , approach her and move on from there .

Re: How to know if a normal sg lady is interested in you?
 

How to go about approaching her to see got chance anot?
As I know her through a course and will see quite often but scared later made the approach and she might not be interested in me.

This will cause awkwardness between us.

Feeling confuse on how to go about this.

Re: How to know if a normal sg lady is interested in you?
 

If a lady is really interested in getting to know you. They will either find ways to get to know u or ask u out directly for dinner or movie ...etc. They rarely drop hints if you are talking about ladies in singapore.:D

Re: How to know if a normal sg lady is interested in you?
 

Really meh?haha...so far ladies in Singapore like hardly will made the move the first move.

Re: How to know if a normal sg lady is interested in you?
 

Don't generalize, some do, some don't, it depends on the character of the person you met.....

Actually there is no need to know, if you are going go makan, ask them to join you, if you are going for coffee ask them to join you. The thing is even if they don't join you, go for your meal or coffee, you never know if they see you.

If they are interested (in eating or drinking or you) they will join you. Then take the opportunity to talk and find out more about them then see if you got chance for next meet up that is all.

If they are interested in you, everytime you ask them out they will show, even if they don't they will let you know an alternative (not the simple next time, then again some ladies just say that).

Bro you join SBF 10 years already this kind of thing, no need ppl to teach you lah :D:D:D

Re: How to know if a normal sg lady is interested in you?
 

TS , follow the above post from iluvbreast

Re: How to know if a normal sg lady is interested in you?
 

Thanks bro for your advice.

Just came out from a bad relationship and still recovering for a few months.
That why now better think properly before doing anything.
Haha

Re: How to know if a normal sg lady is interested in you?
 

男追女隔层山，女追男隔层纱

if she is interested, the conversation will flow, the messaging will flow, she will make time for u

on the other hand, u also have to be alert to any hints she is dropping, and prepare to equip yourself with mindreading or psychic abilities :p;):D

Re: How to know if a normal sg lady is interested in you?
 

The truth is if they dun make the first move, that is becoz u r not attractive enough to them...Simple as that.:o

PS : For women whereby u need to constantly ask them out and they dun do it vice versa. Though they go out with u, it means that they are just sitting on the fence. U r not their first choice, but they dun really rule u out. For me, i would rather be with someone who would ask me out and not just me asking her out.

Re: How to know if a normal sg lady is interested in you?
 

Yah you should think properly but it should about knowing her as a person; not about gauging your target and her 'signs'....

End of the day how pretty also like that if you cannot stand her habit(s) or behaviour(s). My gal used to smoke casually but I don't (and my whole family too).

It was ok when we were just friends, one day she told me she wanted us to be together, she agreed to stop smoking if we are.

One day after makan, say go toilet but come back with strong perfume to cover cigarette smell :mad: then ask me send her back, reached her place then know actually her folks overseas.

She took me to her room....I told her I going and I asked her why she smoke, my clothes got her perfume and cigarette smell :mad:, my mum sure not happy, she called me mama's boy...we ended arguing, so I told her reconsider and left....

Re: How to know if a normal sg lady is interested in you?
 

what is non-working local lady? unemployed? anyway, that aside...

#1 approach her when she is waiting for bus/grab home from the course, say "hi.. ask her about the lesson, or if she understood anything whoever was talking jus now? blah.. blah.. blah... den introduce yourself.. and find out about her name, dog, bf, father, mother...
if her reply is one word or no smile on her face etc, den I think the signs is very clear, move on to the next chick, preferably not the same class or someone who sits beside her.

or or!! personally I prefer u to use the below:

“我可以跟你要你的手机号码吗？我想跟你的猫眯做。。哦不是，是想和你做朋友 :D”

gambate!!

Re: How to know if a normal sg lady is interested in you?
 

Ehh... non-working lady means she not working as ML/FL etc... *facepalm*

Also, TS seems to already know the girl, just don't know how to approach the subject

Re: How to know if a normal sg lady is interested in you?
 

Also, TS seems to already know the girl, just don't know how to approach the subject

okie... if this is the case, usually jus keep asking her out, text her everyday, almost everyday la.. females like to test endurance! obviously she will know he is koa-ing her.

the longer he last (prolly one month later should have result) she will get hooked!!
if her replies are one word, 3 words, take very long, no reply.. den he can really move on, no need wait one month.

there is also another scenario, he keep shower her with attention den suddenly stopped. den she will feel something's not right and initiate contact... basically u water the plant everyday she will bloom, u stopped watering, she will dry up and dieeee :(

ehhh am I giving out trade secret?! XD
disclaimer: above method has a 50% chance of success and 50% chance of failure. try at your own risk!

Re: How to know if a normal sg lady is interested in you?
 

Who dares wins !