Married but has a new girlfriend
 

Hi,

I’m married without kids for close to 3years
Due to work I travel quite abit

I kinda know this new girl
Which connected on almost all level compared to my wife
But having said it’s someone new, the feeling is fresh etc etc

I made the worst mistake by lying to the new girl that I’m not married
And I think she invested feeling into this relationship too

I think I like the new girl too, but it’s too early to tell.

Right now I don’t know what should I do...
I’m planning to keep the new girl and my wife in the dark about each other.

Or is there a better way to handle this situation

*this new girl is 2years younger than my wife ( not sure if this is relevant )

Re: Married but has a new girlfriend
 

On a side note

This girl is not as crazy as my wife, and I really feel like being with her instead of my wife

Re: Married but has a new girlfriend
 

Enjoy while it last loh... eventually either side will find out that you lied/cheat.
So many permutations how things will turn out, but only married for 3 years and you already got tempted, perhaps LTC dun suit you ;)

Re: Married but has a new girlfriend
 

bro you are not in 7 year itch yet

How long you have been dating with your wife

Re: Married but has a new girlfriend
 

You just only want the fresh feeling. After you and the new girl long already you will feel bored and want to find a new one for fresh feeling. Now is to think properly first. You will need to go through divorce lawyer and WC too.

Re: Married but has a new girlfriend
 

I dated many other girls before during marriage

Most didn’t develop feelings, only this one did
And my friends see it as I’m that kind who can let go very easily

We are always addicted to fresh feeling. But what you say is true, there's a difference in that among the lots of girls you meet, there's the few (not just one) that stands out in your mind. One is your wife, then another is this new gf.

It's probably because you spend a lot of time traveling and lonely, a lot of free, unsupervised time on your hands, that lead to this. Suggest you get a job that lets you spend more time at home with your wife and r/s will strengthen naturally.

Re: Married but has a new girlfriend
 

One of the thing is, once the thought of leaving the wife comes to mind. Then it will be stuck there. Maybe not this time but if another girl comes along and sticky enough to push you through.

You might just do it.

Hence I agree with the bro above on the part about strengthening the relationship if you today decide to hang on.

Then remember why you decided so.

Trust yourself on your decision.

好看的皮囊千遍一律，美丽的灵魂独一无二。

Re: Married but has a new girlfriend
 

Thanks!

Right now my mind is pretty blank on how to handle the situation

One friend advice is...

When you meet someone new, even you feel that the pussy hole is made to suit your kkj
But after the honeymoon period, the new girl might turn out to be crazy

Re: Married but has a new girlfriend
 

If you have feeling for her, just go for it :)

Re: Married but has a new girlfriend
 

fuck her yet? If not, fuck her first then say. Sample the goods well before u buy it.
Just enjoy it while it lasts. Could be different after she know u're married and kept her in the dark all along.
Well most wives are always crazy. Thats why many bros choose to stay unmarried.:D

Re: Married but has a new girlfriend
 

Crazy women can take scissors and snip snip...

Re: Married but has a new girlfriend
 

TS, you have to be really honest with this new gal about your martial status as honesty is the best policy to avoid disasters caused by your dishonesty on martial status. Otherwise unforeseen drama will happen to both of you. Learn from this guy’s costly mistake: https://stomp.straitstimes.com/singa...-on-china-work

Re: Married but has a new girlfriend
 

One leg two boat always end up you got soaked.
Best both keep in the dark and enjoy having sex with both of them. :)

Re: Married but has a new girlfriend
 

if you are serious about new girl and want long term, better tell her you're married and see how she reacts. that will help you answer the qns. but if you only here for a good time, then best keep both at dark and say bye eventually to one or the other.

worst case scenario is both of them find out you cheating and then it's bye bye to both. better make a choice while you still can bro,before the choice is made for you