Mia
 

About half a year ago, I started to develops feeling for this FL called Mia. We were seeing each other every weekend. At first, I paid for her full day but eventually she stop charging me.

Even though the feeling she had for me at that time was real, it didn’t stop her from accepting cash and gift from me as a boyfriend. To PRC, BF supposed to paid for everything and give material satisfaction to the girl.

After the first month, she was having a hard time with her boss who trying to forced her to go to some lowlife first come first serve massage shop. The shop is at street level with the door wide open waiting for customer to walk in. She didn’t get to choose which customer to serve and may even forced to served Indian.

She told me she need 5k to pay for middleman fees to apply for a new S pass. I was worried that she will be forced to serve any customer. I give her the money that she needed

Later on, she cut off her ties with her boss and start to operating at a level 5 hotel. I continue to seeing her during weekend and sometime take her out for quick drink during weekday.

As the time closer to her departure date and her new S pass was still not approved, she started to panic. She told me she need to pay 3-5k SGD monthly for her company debt back in China. She was worried that she can’t survive through the 21 days quarantine period at China. Moreover, her period was coming soon. She decided to take pills to temporarily stop her period just so she can continue to work. I worried about her and I told her that I will give her 10k to survive the quarantine period. I also told her to stop taking the pills.

She ignore my request but one fine day, her period still came during session with her customer. I told her that I will support her financially as much as I can. She told me she will definitely come back and as soon as possible.

She stop working two days before her flight to spend time with me. I bought her some gift for her friend, an iPhone 12 Pro Max and cosmetic set from La Mer (1k plus).

After she went back to China, we started to video call every day. She growing impatient with my request to video call her every day. She said she need time off. We stop video call but I still text her from time to time. I can tell from her replied that she was getting upset.

One fine day she texted me said that her depression was coming back. I called her back, she shouted at me said she was sick and she can’t see anyone even me. I shouted back at her and call her a liar. And then everything went downhill from there.

The thing that I don’t understand is when she needed the money, she told me that she will come back ASAP. After she went back, she told me she need to extend her stay at China due to cosmetic surgery and COVID vaccine jab. I felt toyed by her even though I knew that her feeling for me was real. I guess even though we both love each other but things changed when she was back to her family and friends and when she no longer “need” me to support her.

There you go, that’s my love story with the FL Mia. She was the love of my life. For the 3 months that she was here, first two months I spend an average 7k just to bao her days. The last month, I give her closed to 17k in cash. In the end, she still left me.

She has blocked all my contact, WeChat, phone line, tictok, email, whatever that I can think of contacting her. She immediately blocked it.

She threaten to report me to my company for prostitution.

Some times when I looking back at what we have been through, I just can’t believe this will be the end where we hate each other for life. We have exchange vulgarity so it’s impossible for us to even go back to commercial relationship.

She used to told me about a story of another guy who always booked the last two hours of her time. She called him last-two-hours. She said she can’t stand him always bragging how much he spend for her. I should take the hint and walk away but I fall for her just like every guy here fall for KC trap.

Re: Mia
 

Uncle Sam talked about this before. Whores are for fucking not loving. Just pump and dump. That's about it.

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They are going after $$ and nothing else

Yes mostly it's all abt money so must know when to pull the handbrake

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Wah.. You not only kanna KC big time but really you kanna Kongtao....

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Well fortunately its just MIA and not KIA. Money lost can be earned back. Just hope you learn the lesson： 婊子无情，戏子无义

On our first broke up, I texted her 婊子无情，戏子无义and left her at a Vietnamese restaurant at Clark Quay area. After I left, she was drinking alone at the restaurant for 2 hours. I checked with the restaurant owner to confirmed her story.

Before she blocked my WeChat, she asked me a question which make me ponder.

“If I’m really a scammer, why did I insisted on breakup even after you said you will send me money?”

She has no reason to not continue accepting my money but she would rather stay away from me.

There’s another reason that make me think her feeling is real other than she was not charging me for sex.

Her body was really “excited” for me. I don’t even have to do anything. Just seeing me make her excited. I can tell the different between KY and natural reaction. It’s easy for girl to fake their affection, their facial expression, their words but I don’t think she can fake her body reaction.

BTW, Mia is her name and I didn’t means missing in action.

Re: Mia
 

Not worth doing anything for a ML WL FL as they only temporarily stay in sg only.

Always end up have to break even if both side true love and want to continue.

Save your time, money, effort, heart for local SG girls or PR girls.

Re: Mia
 

TS you likely hurt her feelings with that statement. We use that statement as a cautionary adage but you actually confronted her with it. No one likes to be reminded as a heartless sex worker, she’s human afterall. There are also 有情有义 people in the trade but these are a minority. The more important question is why are you moaning here? If you truly love her , shouldn’t you be in China chasing after her? Lust & love need to be differentiated , sometimes they do not go hand in hand.

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What's the difference now? She is Mia and she is MIA (missing in action).

PRC is generally a conservative country. Sure there is a lot of sexual sidelines but there is a fine balance. Many of them live a wild but short lived second life. Be it in Singapore or another China city where they do not originate from. They do what they can accept to make as much money as they can. Once they have enough money or they know they are getting old, they revert back to themselves in their home city/town/village etc where no one knows of their past.

If you cross between her secret life and real life, there is a risk you will tell her friends and family what she does to make a living in Singapore. No point risking it by keeping in touch with you. She can easily find another nice guy in China. Afterall, China is not lacking in people.

Re: Mia
 

Frankly, 17K to her may be like one month's income (not incl of gifts)

Hope u at least had decent sex and fun.

Re: Mia
 

Bro TS.

That's life.
When you were there then, you won't see the rest after.

I went through this same journey before. I can understand your feeling totally.

Anyway, there are still a plenty waiting ahead for us all. ;)

Re: Mia
 

Bro, sorry to break it to you. You are only believing what you want to believe.

In reality, women's hormone level get elevated a few days before ovulation, so it has nothing to do with any person. You are not the 'special' factor. No one is. Their skin will become smoother, gets more wet easily. Like you said "You didn't have to do anything"

My point is your delusion about her body can't lie need to stop.

She gave you access to her body because you paid a lot for it.

Now, imagine another scenario with other women that you didn't need to 'pay' to open her legs.. would you be that kind and generous?

You know what you are capable of giving. Make sure the person is worth it.

Maybe you will have a better luck with her then. She will definitely come back

Re: Mia
 

I don’t know what’s your problem. And I don’t really care. Unleash your anger elsewhere. You obviously angry with something as you’re so quick to jump to insult.